Red Flags, Gaslighting & Bad Behavior — Dating Dilemmas Pt.1
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The following podcast is a Dear Media production. This is Let's Be Honest with Kristen Cavallari, a podcast all about getting real and open on everything from sex, relationships, reality TV, wellness, family, and so much more. And just a fair warning, there will probably be some oversharing. Hello, how we doing everybody? I'm excited for today. We're doing Dating Dilemmas. I love doing Dating Dilemmas. They're fun. And especially now that we have the voicemail set up, it's, I just love being able to hear your voices. The only issue, though, with the voicemails is they can get really long. And so I actually most of these are going to be from Instagram because they're just super concise to the point because in those little boxes on Instagram, you can only say so much.
So I am going to play a couple of voicemails. However, most of them I'm going to read just for timing purposes. So as always, I really appreciate you guys writing and calling in because they're just they're good. And just always a little reminder that it's Crazy out there, guys, in the dating world. So, OK, we're going to start with this one because this became a whole to do on the old Instagram. OK, so the first one is men in relationships following random women. when I asked you guys to submit these dating dilemmas, it turned into this whole thing about men and their social media behavior because women are confused and women don't know. So I had asked the guys to chime in, let me know, give me all the info on this.
Okay, so here's the consensus, ladies, from the men themselves. Following women means absolutely nothing. There is no weight to put behind that. And kind of what I gathered was we overthink a lot of things. And obviously, you know, because I think the difference is Most women that I know anyways, don't follow hot guy, like random hot guys. Cause I just think we're built differently. We are wired differently than men. Men are visual creatures. They just are. And men like to look at pretty things, but it doesn't mean anything. And so the guys were saying scrolling is mindless, but then where it starts to get tricky is when guys are liking random girls photos. because, and I agree, what is the point? If you're in a relationship, why are you liking other girls' photos?
I think it's disrespectful to your girlfriend or your wife. And I think like, what is the thought process behind liking a photo? Is it because you want them to see you? Is it because, you know, you're like trying to flirt a little because so then guys also said, and separately from following random girls, because I said, is liking a photo a subtle flirt? Most guys said yes. And some guys said it's not even subtle. That is like a definite flirt, like hoping that you'll see us. Some guys said, no, we just are supporting what we're seeing. Like it doesn't, again, it just doesn't carry that much weight. But majority definitely said, okay, following girls, not a big deal. Don't overthink it. But the liking of the pictures is a bit of a red flag.
And so that's kind of where we're at. I think in a perfect world, ladies, we would get into a relationship and our guy would unfollow every random girl that they don't know, but it's not always going to happen. And so, okay, if we can look at, cause by the way, it's the internet, they can go find any hot girl that they want. They look at barstool, they look at any freaking website and there's hot girls. So We can't have our men be living under a rock. Like guys are going to be inundated with hot women on a daily basis. It's just the world that we're living in. And I think if you try to control your man, you can't follow her. He's going to want to do it 10 times more than he already wanted to. So let the man follow some hot girls.
Get it out of the system. It means nothing. And especially if these like, you know, models and actresses or whatever, if it's Joe Schmo, they're never going to come in contact with these girls. If it's like some hot waitress from the bar downtown. OK, well, that's a different story, especially if he's liking her photos.
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