Kristin Cavallari

We're on to the next.

It's being really present.

You have to just be present.

Stop thinking so much.

Us girls think too much.

We get in our own ways.

We sabotage ourselves.

Watching my best friend go for the same type that hasn't worked and letting her learn on her own.

I mean, that's just it.

Here's the thing with dating.

And as a friend, seeing your friend go for the same toxic bad guy, you know, you can only do and say so much as a friend.

Ultimately, we all have to go through our own journey.

We all have our own lessons.

And, you know, if you're the friend, let's say you've been married for 20 years and you're really happy with your husband and you're seeing your friend go for these toxic men and you're like,

Why can't she just get it together?

You're on a very different journey than her.

She has things she has to learn from these dynamics.

And the only way to learn them is to go through them.

Unfortunately, I say this as someone who has gone through a lot of the same toxic behavior with men.

I had so many lessons that I had to learn by dating narcissists or dating, you know, certain types of men.