Kyle Sandilands

You can logically know someone is harming you, but I think emotionally you feel unable to let go.

Yeah.

I do mention in one of my TikToks, and I wrote, imagine knowing someone is destroying your mind, your peace, your entire sense of self, and you don't even want him anymore, but you can't let go.

Yeah.

That's kind of what it does to you.

Yeah, it is.

I think you kind of hold on for that good part to come back.

And then all of a sudden, all the bad doesn't matter anymore because you're like, finally, I'm in that good stage again.

And you just hold on to that.

Yeah, that's right.

What's stored in the body and the way the body responds to getting soothed by the affection and the making up period.

And then when it gets taken away, it is almost like this kind of drug that gets removed and you're desperate for it to be soothed again.

that feels really impossible to leave.

And people do often say, how do people get into abusive relationships where it's physical abuse, domestic violence?

Why don't they just leave?

It's not that easy, right?

But a lot of people do say, why don't they just leave?

But, you know, it's really complicated.

It's more complex than that.

Yeah, the police were actually involved from very early on in our relationship.