Kyle Sopono

And then wait for them to message you and say, are you all good?

And at that point you go, yeah, I'm fine.

Like, why do you ask?

Okay, no, stop, yeah.

No, no, I would stop you there.

But it's not that far from the truth, but I would stop you.

Okay, no, let me rephrase then.

Because once they ask what's wrong, that's when I would say it.

Once they ask what's wrong, then you go, well, I think this, this, and this, and then they kind of go, and you have to get them to do the breakup.

No, wrong, wrong.

I would distance, you got that part right, and I would really pull back.

So I felt like it was like, okay, if I pull back and things aren't going as well as it was, then maybe they would take it easier and be like, oh, maybe I don't really want him either.

because it hasn't been that good.

Whereas if you just do it while things have been good, it's like, that's just fucking slacks, bro.

So you'd rather just drag it on?

I'd rather just drag it on for maybe a few days.

And just slowly take a step back and reply less and less until they're like, oi, what's wrong?

And then I'm like, okay, they're at the point where they're also a bit over, they're a bit fucking over this and it won't hurt as much.

And I'd be like, oh.

That's gaslighting.