Laura Danger

You can just take it chunk by chunk.

I, you know, the one piece that I need to convey is that you cannot convince somebody to take responsibility if they aren't willing to do that for themselves.

And if you are listening to this and thinking, oh, oh, this might be the dynamic at home, sit with it.

See how that feels and think about your own next move because you can only take care of yourself and where you're going to go from here.

A hundred percent.

That's absolutely what weaponized incompetence is about.

It's almost when this becomes a pattern, when somebody fails at something simple as like they've learned how to do the laundry a million times and then continue to say, I just don't know how to do it.

You're better at it.

It's almost like a dare.

Like, I dare you to say something.

I dare you to ask again because there's going to be some kind of emotional fallout or I'm going to ruin all our clothes.

There's some sort of punishment at the end of it.

And that is, in and of itself, it's creating this power struggle, this hierarchy of whose energy, time, and emotional and mental needs are protected over the other.

Oh, 100 percent.

That's that.

And that's one of those that is so common.

100 percent.

So ugly.

Yeah.

Yeah.