Laura
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But with this one, with our son, it was very much a black and white, I cannot take care of this baby, you can take care of this baby, here you go.
And it also helped that the baby was in the NICU.
So the baby wasn't right there with her.
She didn't have to take care of it.
No bonding.
Didn't have to bond.
She didn't have to worry about it because the baby was gone.
And she could go see it if she wanted to, but she didn't have to.
And I think she went and said goodbye to him before she left the hospital.
But that was it.
Yes.
Okay.
So it depends on the type of adoption you choose.
You can choose an open or a closed adoption.
So closed adoption means no contact whatsoever.
Open adoption, you make the rules together.
Okay.
So we have her phone number.
She has our phone number.
If she wants to call us, she can.