Leila Hormozi

And nobody wants an unstable leader. So like for women to lead, it's very hard to be unstable. Where does instability come from? Inability to regulate your emotions. And so I think that's the first thing is don't listen to what people say about how you just can't because of your hormones and because of this. You can't. It just will be harder.

It is harder. for some people than others. It might be harder for women. It might be harder when you have less resources. It is not impossible. You have less skills. I think it is harder the less skilled you are. Some people are incredibly skilled and they've learned it from, they had great friends growing up, they had great mothers, they had great fathers to look up to.

It is harder. for some people than others. It might be harder for women. It might be harder when you have less resources. It is not impossible. You have less skills. I think it is harder the less skilled you are. Some people are incredibly skilled and they've learned it from, they had great friends growing up, they had great mothers, they had great fathers to look up to.

Some people didn't and some of those people, it's harder, it's more exhausting. But what would you rather have? A life that is perpetually capped by the fact that you can't regulate your emotions or a year of learning that is exhausting but at the end of it,

Some people didn't and some of those people, it's harder, it's more exhausting. But what would you rather have? A life that is perpetually capped by the fact that you can't regulate your emotions or a year of learning that is exhausting but at the end of it,

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah. And I didn't, I mean, geez, I didn't have all the resources I have now when I was learning this. And by the way, money doesn't help you learn how to regulate your emotions. I mean, once you have money, you've got lawsuits, you've got people trying to take your money. You've got people trying to steal your money. I mean, it's just same problems. They just look different. Um, and bigger. Yeah.

Yeah. And I didn't, I mean, geez, I didn't have all the resources I have now when I was learning this. And by the way, money doesn't help you learn how to regulate your emotions. I mean, once you have money, you've got lawsuits, you've got people trying to take your money. You've got people trying to steal your money. I mean, it's just same problems. They just look different. Um, and bigger. Yeah.

Yeah, that's the first truth I would say.

Yeah, that's the first truth I would say.

You know, I think so many women, I actually, I met with, when I first started making content, I met with a creator, I'll just say, somebody who many, quite a famous person who had a wife who also made content in the space. And I said, like, do you have any advice for me? Because I want to make content because I think that it would help me get the right people on my team.

You know, I think so many women, I actually, I met with, when I first started making content, I met with a creator, I'll just say, somebody who many, quite a famous person who had a wife who also made content in the space. And I said, like, do you have any advice for me? Because I want to make content because I think that it would help me get the right people on my team.

I think that it's something I've wanted to do. It's like, I want to help people avoid the things that I have learned. But like, what would you say? And this person and one other person that were very large male influencers said the same thing. They were like, you just can't care so much how you look. And I was like, what do you mean?

I think that it's something I've wanted to do. It's like, I want to help people avoid the things that I have learned. But like, what would you say? And this person and one other person that were very large male influencers said the same thing. They were like, you just can't care so much how you look. And I was like, what do you mean?

And they're both like, you know what stopped my wife is she just won't be recorded without any makeup on. And I was like, huh. And so, you know, I've thought about that and I really recognize it. It's like, I like to have my hair and makeup done, but I'm not going to make it a necessity to get things done.

And they're both like, you know what stopped my wife is she just won't be recorded without any makeup on. And I was like, huh. And so, you know, I've thought about that and I really recognize it. It's like, I like to have my hair and makeup done, but I'm not going to make it a necessity to get things done.

Like we do vlogging where it's like, you know, it's like they're vlogging me and I'm like, yeah, I do not look good.

Like we do vlogging where it's like, you know, it's like they're vlogging me and I'm like, yeah, I do not look good.

You're still like, yeah, right. But the thing that I've realized is if I act the opposite of that. So if I allow people to capture me without makeup, if I don't wear makeup to work every day, if I don't do my hair and look perfect every day, then the thoughts of judgment start to get less loud.