Leslie John

I'm going to grow.

I'm going to be constantly evolving.

I'm going to be constantly healing.

Yeah.

So accept me.

I will fully accept you.

Yeah.

If something bothers me, I'll just talk to you about it.

No, I mean, besides like, if we're going to be exclusively dating, the intention is we're going to be getting married and we're getting kids.

We're older.

She was like, I can't waste my time being in a relationship.

And so it wasn't more like conditions.

It was more like agreements.

And I think I was so clear.

We also started the relationship in therapy.

I said, I'm not getting a community relationship unless we start in therapy.

She was like, I'm in.

So for me, I was like, I don't want to go two years and then it's just like we're exhausted or it doesn't work out or the first year is good and then.

No, start with, not get all the problems all the way, but like start with healing individually and creating agreements together to create less issues in the future.

It doesn't mean we don't have things we need to overcome together.