Leslie John
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
And all the best.
And I'll be single and that's okay.
You know, it doesn't mean it's right or wrong.
It was my request.
And I think it's because I had in most of my previous relationships, not all of them, but most of them, I felt under attack constantly for who I was.
Underappreciated, but it was more like just under attack.
It's like, why are you doing this?
Or why is that?
Or why is this?
I didn't feel understood.
And then therefore there was a frustration.
Maybe it was a mind reading expectation or whatever it is.
Or they wanted me to be a different person.
They expected me, once we were together, not gonna be a different person, as opposed to, this is who I am, accept me, or don't be with me, and that's okay.
And I lacked the courage to get out of those relationships.
So I just, I changed to make them happy.
I wasn't happy and they still weren't happy.
So no matter how much I changed, they still weren't happy.
So I was like, I'm never gonna change for you.
Never.