Leslie John

Yeah.

Oh, Claire, I feel for you.

The word there, it was haunting her.

Yes, it was haunting her.

And then in the end, it was moot.

I was hoping she'd say that they got a good laugh out of it, at least.

Or maybe they still had the footage and they could laugh about it.

But it sounds like it was not even, she didn't even give it laughter.

But she did get relief, I think, in the end.

And I think one of the reasons why they often affect us more than

it ends up being to the person we reveal them to is because for one, we're so used to keeping things inside.

And so we actually don't have

the data that disproves this belief that it's a big deal, right?

And this is why I really think of revealing as a skill, as a practice, right?

If you do it more, then you realize that you get feedback.

You're like, oh, that wasn't such a big deal.

It's funny because I was thinking about a dear friend of mine.

Recently, we've rekindled our friendship.

We were roommates in college and she said to me, I have a confession to make.

When we lived together, I was the one that ate the Oreos.