Leslie John

Now, here's a question for you.

Do you feel like people should get married if they have a low EQ?

If you're really smart and intelligent and you have a high IQ, if you have a low EQ, should you get married?

Because you didn't know yourself emotionally.

But you probably knew on paper or analytically what you wanted.

I want to be married.

I want a guy who's got this job or looks a certain way.

So analytically and on paper, you knew what you wanted.

Wait, so, okay, I'm confused now because you had a high EQ, low EQ before getting married.

You were more in your head, but now I'm hearing you say you're a touchy-feely, emotional, feeling person.

But you weren't back then is what I'm hearing.

There's something about this you said earlier about the mind reading expectations.

Yeah.

You know, in male-female intimate relationships, who has higher mind-reading expectations of the other?

And when someone has a high mind reading.

Okay.

Well, when someone has a high mind reading expectation of their intimate partner.

Expecting them to know what they think and feel at all times.

Yep.

Or when they're feeling some emotions they don't like.