Lewis Howes

That was why I was nervous, because I want her to admire me.

All I want is my wife's admiration.

Not the 17,000 people.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

And so this is the example of how the evolutionary biology, man, it has teeth.

And when we understand ourselves in this context, we understand all the things that we do.

This is why we go after those worldly idols, is because we want to rise in the kin-based hierarchy of 30 to 50 individuals, which has been exploded into billions of people.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

And when you know that, you got power.

Because then you don't have to be a prisoner of the animal impulse.

You can get into the space of your moral aspiration.

That's what the amazing human brain allows you to do.

34 years.

Yeah.

So there's so much on that these days.

But the biggest problem that we see is that your marriage is not a problem that you can solve.

Your marriage is not a left brain complicated problem.

It's not an algorithm.

And our culture has actually told us that we should be able to solve every problem, right?

And with proper information, we should be able to solve the problem.