Lewis Howes

You don't want to be there.

You don't want to be there unless you're about to get intimate.

Lewis, do you talk six inches away from your friend?

Oh, that's too close.

No, no, no.

Got you, okay.

Okay, so here's what happens.

Zero to 18 inches apart is intimate zone.

Okay, so here's what happens.

This is the biggest mistake I'm seeing right now is we're all on video call all the time.

It is literally saying, I want to get close really, really fast.

And so if you have someone who's super high warmth, they're like, yes, vulnerability, intimacy, and you're gonna attract those kind of people.

But if you have someone who's like, whoa, whoa, whoa, take a minute, they are turned off.

So what's happening is on video calls, you hop on FaceTime, you hop on video or on Zoom, and people are like right up in their camera.

But their nose and their camera are 10 inches apart.

And so someone's like, whoa.

It's too close.

It's too close.

So that's the first one is you want to respect the space zones.

The sweet spot is a foot and a half to three or four feet away.