Lewis Howes

Just asking better questions.

Why?

Because questions are the steering wheel of the mind.

Questions direct focus.

And so learning how to be conscious about asking questions rather than be trained to ask the wrong questions.

And this is where another powerful concept comes in that helps you stay in through me versus by me.

The whole aspect of by me is competition.

It's effort.

It's force.

It's go wrestle reality to the ground to try to make it fit my pictures.

Through me is where you move your center of gravity from control to observation.

You're allowing something smarter than you to do the heavy lifting because your frequency is aligned with what it is that you want, not focus on what you don't want.

Right.

Again, life is a self-reflecting universe.

And so many people are standing in front of the mirror and they're angry because it's not smiling back.

And so what do they do?

They try a short-term fix in the outer world.

They get some lipstick and they draw a smile on the mirror, hoping that that's going to work.

Interesting.

But you have drama at the dinner table, you solve that.