Lewis Howes
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Because you had a learning disability, which made it hard for you to do things, made you feel crummy about yourself.
But then when you achieved, especially as an athlete, that adults gave you attention and affection.
And what you learn from that is that love is earned.
You learn that love is earned.
That's actually wrong, by the way.
Martha doesn't love you because of what you give her.
She loves you as a grace.
Love is a free gift freely given.
It is.
The problem is that when you wire that in, when you have the programming as a child that love is earned, you will become a success machine.
Yes.
And the success machine has to understand whether or not it's functioning.
And how do you know it's functioning?
Because of points on the board.
And the points on the board comes from the affection of strangers and the admiration of other people and the viewer numbers and the bank account.
That's an honor idol.
Yeah.
Yeah, for sure.
And you're working on it.
And here's the point, that's great.