Lily Collins

And it delays that individuating process.

And it delays that individuating process.

Yeah. And there's the idea that you can't do things on your own. So you're always going to need me. So good luck trying. And it's like, well, of course, you're going to feel rocked. Of course, you're going to feel like what you did, which is completely second guessing everything, feeling the sense of guilt. If you do do anything on your own, you can like celebrate it for a second.

Yeah. And there's the idea that you can't do things on your own. So you're always going to need me. So good luck trying. And it's like, well, of course, you're going to feel rocked. Of course, you're going to feel like what you did, which is completely second guessing everything, feeling the sense of guilt. If you do do anything on your own, you can like celebrate it for a second.

Yeah. And there's the idea that you can't do things on your own. So you're always going to need me. So good luck trying. And it's like, well, of course, you're going to feel rocked. Of course, you're going to feel like what you did, which is completely second guessing everything, feeling the sense of guilt. If you do do anything on your own, you can like celebrate it for a second.

And then it's like, oh God, well, was I supposed to do that on my own? It's just so complicated and exhausting. And that does take a while to rebuild. And then now being in a relationship where I've never felt more celebrated or encouraged to find even more of my identity through discovery and adventure and also failure. Like it's okay to try something and it doesn't work out.

And then it's like, oh God, well, was I supposed to do that on my own? It's just so complicated and exhausting. And that does take a while to rebuild. And then now being in a relationship where I've never felt more celebrated or encouraged to find even more of my identity through discovery and adventure and also failure. Like it's okay to try something and it doesn't work out.

And then it's like, oh God, well, was I supposed to do that on my own? It's just so complicated and exhausting. And that does take a while to rebuild. And then now being in a relationship where I've never felt more celebrated or encouraged to find even more of my identity through discovery and adventure and also failure. Like it's okay to try something and it doesn't work out.

Like I did a pottery class, loved it. Didn't create the coolest bowl. So maybe it's like not for me.

Like I did a pottery class, loved it. Didn't create the coolest bowl. So maybe it's like not for me.

Like I did a pottery class, loved it. Didn't create the coolest bowl. So maybe it's like not for me.

By the way, so fun. It is really fun, but it's okay to keep discovering yourself. We don't have to have everything figured out and you don't have to enjoy everything that your person does either, but let's just keep trying and finding things. what version of yourself you are now.

By the way, so fun. It is really fun, but it's okay to keep discovering yourself. We don't have to have everything figured out and you don't have to enjoy everything that your person does either, but let's just keep trying and finding things. what version of yourself you are now.

By the way, so fun. It is really fun, but it's okay to keep discovering yourself. We don't have to have everything figured out and you don't have to enjoy everything that your person does either, but let's just keep trying and finding things. what version of yourself you are now.

I will say in that specific relationship, friends and family intervened and said, this is not normal. Even though I didn't ask for it, they intervened, which I'm so grateful for. And I took myself out of it because somewhere deep down, I knew I was worth more. I felt that I didn't want that anymore. I didn't want the physical manifestations to continue.

I will say in that specific relationship, friends and family intervened and said, this is not normal. Even though I didn't ask for it, they intervened, which I'm so grateful for. And I took myself out of it because somewhere deep down, I knew I was worth more. I felt that I didn't want that anymore. I didn't want the physical manifestations to continue.

I will say in that specific relationship, friends and family intervened and said, this is not normal. Even though I didn't ask for it, they intervened, which I'm so grateful for. And I took myself out of it because somewhere deep down, I knew I was worth more. I felt that I didn't want that anymore. I didn't want the physical manifestations to continue.

Even if I hadn't associated it directly with this experience or this person, I didn't wanna live that way. I loved my friends and my family that intervened so much that I thought there's gotta be merit to their words. There's something not right. And I also knew the second that I left, because I am the one that stopped being in that relationship first, I felt so free, so light, so much brighter.

Even if I hadn't associated it directly with this experience or this person, I didn't wanna live that way. I loved my friends and my family that intervened so much that I thought there's gotta be merit to their words. There's something not right. And I also knew the second that I left, because I am the one that stopped being in that relationship first, I felt so free, so light, so much brighter.

Even if I hadn't associated it directly with this experience or this person, I didn't wanna live that way. I loved my friends and my family that intervened so much that I thought there's gotta be merit to their words. There's something not right. And I also knew the second that I left, because I am the one that stopped being in that relationship first, I felt so free, so light, so much brighter.