Lily Collins

Like, Abby, when you're saying that you can see it happen, I think knowing that you're safe, knowing that you're not being judged, knowing that you're not going anywhere provides the space to feel comfortable enough to kind of blurt everything out. And you know that unless it is something that you or... Charlie has said, it's not personal. It's me going through my stuff.

It's you, Glennon, going through what you're thinking and feeling and knowing it's okay to just blurt it all out. And maybe the other person, Charlie, will help me articulate it in a way that makes sense. And also, like you said, Glennon, about...

It's you, Glennon, going through what you're thinking and feeling and knowing it's okay to just blurt it all out. And maybe the other person, Charlie, will help me articulate it in a way that makes sense. And also, like you said, Glennon, about...

It's you, Glennon, going through what you're thinking and feeling and knowing it's okay to just blurt it all out. And maybe the other person, Charlie, will help me articulate it in a way that makes sense. And also, like you said, Glennon, about...

when you talk through things to your friends or to your loved ones or to your partner or whoever it may be, and they can so clearly see that something is wrong or fucked up or messed up or messy, it helps give you clarity in the moment. And sometimes I end up laughing and going, oh my God, thank you. Because I would have spent the whole day spiraling.

when you talk through things to your friends or to your loved ones or to your partner or whoever it may be, and they can so clearly see that something is wrong or fucked up or messed up or messy, it helps give you clarity in the moment. And sometimes I end up laughing and going, oh my God, thank you. Because I would have spent the whole day spiraling.

when you talk through things to your friends or to your loved ones or to your partner or whoever it may be, and they can so clearly see that something is wrong or fucked up or messed up or messy, it helps give you clarity in the moment. And sometimes I end up laughing and going, oh my God, thank you. Because I would have spent the whole day spiraling.

Yet you aren't given the space or the ability to individuate. And at that time, if you're in that You said the late teenage, early 20 years, that's when you're blooming and creating your identity. And if you're so wrapped up with one other person and you're being encouraged to quiet all the outside noise, because that's not good.

Yet you aren't given the space or the ability to individuate. And at that time, if you're in that You said the late teenage, early 20 years, that's when you're blooming and creating your identity. And if you're so wrapped up with one other person and you're being encouraged to quiet all the outside noise, because that's not good.

Yet you aren't given the space or the ability to individuate. And at that time, if you're in that You said the late teenage, early 20 years, that's when you're blooming and creating your identity. And if you're so wrapped up with one other person and you're being encouraged to quiet all the outside noise, because that's not good.

Your friends know, your parents know, like, let's just have it be us. And part of you is going, oh, great. Okay. And then part of you wants to reach out, but then there stops being the ability and the outreach for that. And you're only mirrored with what you're seeing. And that person is telling you who you are You are conditioned to start believing it.

Your friends know, your parents know, like, let's just have it be us. And part of you is going, oh, great. Okay. And then part of you wants to reach out, but then there stops being the ability and the outreach for that. And you're only mirrored with what you're seeing. And that person is telling you who you are You are conditioned to start believing it.

Your friends know, your parents know, like, let's just have it be us. And part of you is going, oh, great. Okay. And then part of you wants to reach out, but then there stops being the ability and the outreach for that. And you're only mirrored with what you're seeing. And that person is telling you who you are You are conditioned to start believing it.

And then once you're out of it, you are rocked. There's a sense of a self-identity crisis in a sense. I've been this for so long. What am I? What do I like? What do I find funny? What do I want to eat? What do I want to wear? Where do I want to go? What do I want to look at every day? And you're going, I don't know. And that can make you freeze too. Because

And then once you're out of it, you are rocked. There's a sense of a self-identity crisis in a sense. I've been this for so long. What am I? What do I like? What do I find funny? What do I want to eat? What do I want to wear? Where do I want to go? What do I want to look at every day? And you're going, I don't know. And that can make you freeze too. Because

And then once you're out of it, you are rocked. There's a sense of a self-identity crisis in a sense. I've been this for so long. What am I? What do I like? What do I find funny? What do I want to eat? What do I want to wear? Where do I want to go? What do I want to look at every day? And you're going, I don't know. And that can make you freeze too. Because

I mean, now it's like, once you get out of something like that, there can be a renaissance where you're going, I'm going to try everything. I want to see who I am, what I like, what I don't like. But there's also a scary factor to it where you aren't having that person to rely on anymore for answers. And- Even if they weren't healthy answers, they were answers that you became used to.

I mean, now it's like, once you get out of something like that, there can be a renaissance where you're going, I'm going to try everything. I want to see who I am, what I like, what I don't like. But there's also a scary factor to it where you aren't having that person to rely on anymore for answers. And- Even if they weren't healthy answers, they were answers that you became used to.

I mean, now it's like, once you get out of something like that, there can be a renaissance where you're going, I'm going to try everything. I want to see who I am, what I like, what I don't like. But there's also a scary factor to it where you aren't having that person to rely on anymore for answers. And- Even if they weren't healthy answers, they were answers that you became used to.

And it delays that individuating process.