Lily Collins

And when I say calls it out, that can sometimes have a bad connotation when someone says like, why are you calling me out? No, this is what like healthy conversation and healthy communication is. can feel like when someone can lovingly bring to your attention or call out something that doesn't feel right or that they maybe don't agree with or that they want to help you with.

And when I say calls it out, that can sometimes have a bad connotation when someone says like, why are you calling me out? No, this is what like healthy conversation and healthy communication is. can feel like when someone can lovingly bring to your attention or call out something that doesn't feel right or that they maybe don't agree with or that they want to help you with.

And when I say calls it out, that can sometimes have a bad connotation when someone says like, why are you calling me out? No, this is what like healthy conversation and healthy communication is. can feel like when someone can lovingly bring to your attention or call out something that doesn't feel right or that they maybe don't agree with or that they want to help you with.

It may feel uncomfortable, but it's for the best. And so when he says to me, what's going on? What happened? Is it something I said? Are you feeling some sort of way? Cause that just shifted very quickly. Sometimes I'll say, no, I'm fine. I'm fine. I'm fine. It's like, okay, you're not fine. I know you're not fine. Let's talk about it.

It may feel uncomfortable, but it's for the best. And so when he says to me, what's going on? What happened? Is it something I said? Are you feeling some sort of way? Cause that just shifted very quickly. Sometimes I'll say, no, I'm fine. I'm fine. I'm fine. It's like, okay, you're not fine. I know you're not fine. Let's talk about it.

It may feel uncomfortable, but it's for the best. And so when he says to me, what's going on? What happened? Is it something I said? Are you feeling some sort of way? Cause that just shifted very quickly. Sometimes I'll say, no, I'm fine. I'm fine. I'm fine. It's like, okay, you're not fine. I know you're not fine. Let's talk about it.

And I have gotten better at saying, if I truly feel like I need to take a moment, I will say you're right. There is something that just happened. I'm feeling some sort of way. I'm actually not at the place right now to properly articulate what I'm feeling. I can tell you the feelings. I know you want to help and you want to know them.

And I have gotten better at saying, if I truly feel like I need to take a moment, I will say you're right. There is something that just happened. I'm feeling some sort of way. I'm actually not at the place right now to properly articulate what I'm feeling. I can tell you the feelings. I know you want to help and you want to know them.

And I have gotten better at saying, if I truly feel like I need to take a moment, I will say you're right. There is something that just happened. I'm feeling some sort of way. I'm actually not at the place right now to properly articulate what I'm feeling. I can tell you the feelings. I know you want to help and you want to know them.

I promise I'll get back to you because I know in the past sometimes I said I will and then I don't and it goes unnoticed and then it gets not talked about and then it gets projected somewhere else. So I totally get that. But in this exact moment, I would really like to take some space and some time. And I know for anyone listening, that may actually sound like an untrue conversation.

I promise I'll get back to you because I know in the past sometimes I said I will and then I don't and it goes unnoticed and then it gets not talked about and then it gets projected somewhere else. So I totally get that. But in this exact moment, I would really like to take some space and some time. And I know for anyone listening, that may actually sound like an untrue conversation.

I promise I'll get back to you because I know in the past sometimes I said I will and then I don't and it goes unnoticed and then it gets not talked about and then it gets projected somewhere else. So I totally get that. But in this exact moment, I would really like to take some space and some time. And I know for anyone listening, that may actually sound like an untrue conversation.

But I am that person now. I will say it that way because I know that he needs to know that I'm taking accountability for the fact that it is true. I also know that he needs to know I'll get back to him. And I need him to understand that I need the space and the time.

But I am that person now. I will say it that way because I know that he needs to know that I'm taking accountability for the fact that it is true. I also know that he needs to know I'll get back to him. And I need him to understand that I need the space and the time.

But I am that person now. I will say it that way because I know that he needs to know that I'm taking accountability for the fact that it is true. I also know that he needs to know I'll get back to him. And I need him to understand that I need the space and the time.

But if I'm having a real moment that I do need to talk it out, like three mornings ago, everything was fine. And then I got off the phone and he came in and he just looked at me and I had that stare and I said, I'm fine. And then I went, you know what? Actually. And then I started talking and then it all came out. And And it's a non-judgmental space, right?

But if I'm having a real moment that I do need to talk it out, like three mornings ago, everything was fine. And then I got off the phone and he came in and he just looked at me and I had that stare and I said, I'm fine. And then I went, you know what? Actually. And then I started talking and then it all came out. And And it's a non-judgmental space, right?

But if I'm having a real moment that I do need to talk it out, like three mornings ago, everything was fine. And then I got off the phone and he came in and he just looked at me and I had that stare and I said, I'm fine. And then I went, you know what? Actually. And then I started talking and then it all came out. And And it's a non-judgmental space, right?

Like, Abby, when you're saying that you can see it happen, I think knowing that you're safe, knowing that you're not being judged, knowing that you're not going anywhere provides the space to feel comfortable enough to kind of blurt everything out. And you know that unless it is something that you or... Charlie has said, it's not personal. It's me going through my stuff.

Like, Abby, when you're saying that you can see it happen, I think knowing that you're safe, knowing that you're not being judged, knowing that you're not going anywhere provides the space to feel comfortable enough to kind of blurt everything out. And you know that unless it is something that you or... Charlie has said, it's not personal. It's me going through my stuff.