Lindsay

You know?

Yeah, I have for sure.

And he never has like a very like clear, direct answer.

He's always just kind of like, well,

Um, you know, I just feel like it's really scary.

It's a huge commitment.

Um, and I'm like, well, obviously marriage is a big commitment.

And, but clearly like, you're not afraid to be committed to me for seven years and to have our lives like completely codependent on one another.

So yeah, I, that's pretty much the only answer that I get is that it's scary, but someday like for sure we'll be married.

Yeah.

I mean, I guess I would understand where he's coming from, but I mean, I feel like if you got it right on the first try, that's great.

So that's kind of another point of contention a little bit.

I'm the breadwinner in the relationship, which that's not like anything that I'm upset about by any means.

Like I'm totally secure in my career, but

Um, he's in the interview process right now for like a full-time job, but the last couple of years, um, he, he does videography.

So it's kind of just like weddings and gigs and social media stuff for other people.

Um, and then he bartends at a local restaurant too.

Yeah, I would say so.

Yeah, and honestly, I've thought about that a lot.

He hasn't necessarily come out and said money is a factor for him, but I do feel like he kind of has those traditional values like men should be able to provide in their relationship and stuff like that.