Lindsay

Um, he's in the interview process right now for like a full-time job, but the last couple of years, um, he, he does videography.

So it's kind of just like weddings and gigs and social media stuff for other people.

Um, and then he bartends at a local restaurant too.

Yeah, I would say so.

Yeah, and honestly, I've thought about that a lot.

He hasn't necessarily come out and said money is a factor for him, but I do feel like he kind of has those traditional values like men should be able to provide in their relationship and stuff like that.

And so I feel like maybe that could be a point of contention for him too.

Yeah, I think he would love to do just like anything social media for businesses or videography.

He's kind of passionate about that.

Yeah, I guess maybe like to be more clear, he's loved like he's done a lot of concert videography.

And so he also loves the idea of travel with that.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And I feel like we've had a lot of conversations like that over the years.

And I also kind of wonder if part of it might be the fact that he, like his parents were never married and he didn't really experience like an up close healthy relationship, much less marriage.

I mean, I certainly, yeah.

I grew up with a very healthy example of marriage.

My parents are still together.

Yeah.

So even if I have that safe space for him and we have great conversations about this, you feel like