Lindsay

And just without like that lack of clarity or direction, I feel like I'm just left guessing a lot.

And obviously, like, I know he loves me.

I know that we're committed to each other.

And like I said, our relationship is really great otherwise, but I just can't help but feel like this sense of.

Yeah.

A lot of my friends too have said like, I might have,

a little bit of like an enabling issue with him um and i wonder if like that might have any impact on the situation just as far as like really kind of providing for him financially and like obviously physically for a home and like sometimes i'll pay his car payments and stuff like that yeah you shouldn't be paying his car payments yeah

Yeah, I think I have a hard time with that because I know he struggles more financially and I feel more financially secure.

Yeah, that's probably true.

Yeah.

Yeah, no, you make a great point.

I feel like that makes sense.

I feel like I have a lot of things to work with.

I don't know.

I feel like our relationship is very good, but there are just like some key components that just don't seem to be adding up right.

Yeah.

And he definitely has said in the past too, that he is like, he's used to those words that he's waiting for a feeling and he's waiting to feel like some sort of, I don't know, magical moment that he's ready, which is never going to happen.

Yeah.

Thank you so much.

I definitely have things to work on, so I'll be doing that and