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Lindsey Metselaar

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
270 total appearances

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Yes. Okay. Number one is follow the rules. Meaning, um, we met at Acme has a set of rules for men to follow and for women to follow, um, without getting too into them. I would say just like pay for the date. If you asked her on the date, you know, um, be a gentleman, open doors, uh, Don't ask to go up or invite her over after the first date. You know, all of those kinds of things.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Yes. Okay. Number one is follow the rules. Meaning, um, we met at Acme has a set of rules for men to follow and for women to follow, um, without getting too into them. I would say just like pay for the date. If you asked her on the date, you know, um, be a gentleman, open doors, uh, Don't ask to go up or invite her over after the first date. You know, all of those kinds of things.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Yes. Okay. Number one is follow the rules. Meaning, um, we met at Acme has a set of rules for men to follow and for women to follow, um, without getting too into them. I would say just like pay for the date. If you asked her on the date, you know, um, be a gentleman, open doors, uh, Don't ask to go up or invite her over after the first date. You know, all of those kinds of things.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Follow those rules. Get her flowers. And I would say number two, always have the next date set up. Women hate when we're in this sort of limbo where we're like, when are we going to see them again? And are we just going to be pen pals now? Or are they going to ask me out on that other next date, right? Even if they're not free for a week, I still want to have that next date planned.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Follow those rules. Get her flowers. And I would say number two, always have the next date set up. Women hate when we're in this sort of limbo where we're like, when are we going to see them again? And are we just going to be pen pals now? Or are they going to ask me out on that other next date, right? Even if they're not free for a week, I still want to have that next date planned.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Follow those rules. Get her flowers. And I would say number two, always have the next date set up. Women hate when we're in this sort of limbo where we're like, when are we going to see them again? And are we just going to be pen pals now? Or are they going to ask me out on that other next date, right? Even if they're not free for a week, I still want to have that next date planned.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Number three is initiate all of the things. all of the things and don't be afraid to initiate the, I love you, initiate the let's move in together and initiate the, will you be my wife? If that comes up, you know, initiate all the things. Don't make her feel like she has to corner you to have these conversations. Um, and number four, which I didn't know we were going to have a number four.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Number three is initiate all of the things. all of the things and don't be afraid to initiate the, I love you, initiate the let's move in together and initiate the, will you be my wife? If that comes up, you know, initiate all the things. Don't make her feel like she has to corner you to have these conversations. Um, and number four, which I didn't know we were going to have a number four.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Number three is initiate all of the things. all of the things and don't be afraid to initiate the, I love you, initiate the let's move in together and initiate the, will you be my wife? If that comes up, you know, initiate all the things. Don't make her feel like she has to corner you to have these conversations. Um, and number four, which I didn't know we were going to have a number four.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Give me a second. Um, number four, I would say, um, Don't be afraid to be persistent, which we talked about a little bit. But don't be afraid to be persistent because we're all going to get rejected in life and It's like if you don't ask, you won't get. And so you never know what's going on in a person's life. Be persistent if you really, really, especially for men.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Give me a second. Um, number four, I would say, um, Don't be afraid to be persistent, which we talked about a little bit. But don't be afraid to be persistent because we're all going to get rejected in life and It's like if you don't ask, you won't get. And so you never know what's going on in a person's life. Be persistent if you really, really, especially for men.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Give me a second. Um, number four, I would say, um, Don't be afraid to be persistent, which we talked about a little bit. But don't be afraid to be persistent because we're all going to get rejected in life and It's like if you don't ask, you won't get. And so you never know what's going on in a person's life. Be persistent if you really, really, especially for men.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

I feel like men just are luckier in this instance where like they can get away with it. So get away with it. Be persistent. And until you're creeping in on stalker territory, just be persistent. Right.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

I feel like men just are luckier in this instance where like they can get away with it. So get away with it. Be persistent. And until you're creeping in on stalker territory, just be persistent. Right.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

I feel like men just are luckier in this instance where like they can get away with it. So get away with it. Be persistent. And until you're creeping in on stalker territory, just be persistent. Right.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

And I have to tell you for the persistent guy, when you stop being persistent, she'll miss that. Yeah, she will. I know she will because my friend missed it. And now they're married with two kids.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

And I have to tell you for the persistent guy, when you stop being persistent, she'll miss that. Yeah, she will. I know she will because my friend missed it. And now they're married with two kids.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

And I have to tell you for the persistent guy, when you stop being persistent, she'll miss that. Yeah, she will. I know she will because my friend missed it. And now they're married with two kids.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Totally. Be persistent and self-aware.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Totally. Be persistent and self-aware.