Lisa Bilyeu
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1,143 appearances
6 recordings
5 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard 20 Dec
Lisa Bilyeu’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Like he, he was, I mean, I was very young as well.
And so I was very malleable into believing everything he said.
I didn't have the language that we use now.
And so in hindsight, looking back for me to be able to let go of that, to not really hold on to the, the, the bad memories that I very much have, you know, with, you know, they feel like they're kind of like burnt into your soul.
Absolutely.
they feel that bad in order for me to get past it I used to tell myself something and I used to tell myself it's not personal and so I was like and here's the thing in saying it's not personal it actually really helped me to heal now and what I meant by that is Lisa they would have done it to any other he would have done it to any other young girl that he could manipulate
So it's not you, Lisa Bilyeu, obviously my name back then wasn't Lisa Charalambas.
It's not you.
It's him trying to find someone.
You just happen to be somebody that he chose.
I found it very empowering to say it's not personal.
And then I got a quote of yours that you wrote in your book about this.
Could it be that the reason you convince yourself not to take it personally is that your body wants to avoid the pain you would feel if you actually gave yourself the right to feel the pain of that mistreatment?
Yes
I'm just like, yes, yes.
You did.
And it hit me very hard.
It was I'm alleviating the pain of that mistreatment by saying it's not personal.
Would you say the same thing for, let's say your partner cheated on you and betrayed you?
Would you still take that personally?
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