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Lisa Feldman Barrett

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
338 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

I'm afraid of bees.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

I could talk to myself until the cows come home.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

It won't matter, right?

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

So what I have to do is dose myself with prediction error, meaning I have to interact with bees in a way that changes my actions, which will change my lived experience.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

And I can't just do it all at once.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

It's not like a good idea would not be for me to say, would not have been for me to go to like somebody who has beehives and, you know, put on a suit and go work.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

I mean, that would be like overwhelming, right?

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

So instead, maybe I don't run.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

Maybe I stand and watch.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

Maybe I get closer to a bee.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

Maybe I plant bushes and flowers that bees like a lot to bring bees to me so that I can sit and just be around them while they're buzzing and doing their thing.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

Maybe I deliberately let myself get stung at some point, which I did.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

But you're dosing yourself with... Your brain is making a set of predictions.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

Those predictions...

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

There are a set of predictions.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

That means your brain isn't preparing one action, it's preparing multiple actions.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

Yes, so exactly.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Most Replayed Moment: Anxiety Is Just A Prediction! Rewrite Old Stories and Build Emotional Safety

You are setting up circumstances so you can prove to yourself that your predictions are wrong.

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