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Lisa Hickey

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219 total appearances

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And again, I feel like this is something you can practice, like how to have ongoing relationships with people that last a long time. So, you know, another piece of advice might be to reach out to someone you haven't talked to in a while, even, even if it's, you know, not someone that you're looking to date, like, just like how, how do you keep relationships going over time?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And again, I feel like this is something you can practice, like how to have ongoing relationships with people that last a long time. So, you know, another piece of advice might be to reach out to someone you haven't talked to in a while, even, even if it's, you know, not someone that you're looking to date, like, just like how, how do you keep relationships going over time?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And again, I feel like this is something you can practice, like how to have ongoing relationships with people that last a long time. So, you know, another piece of advice might be to reach out to someone you haven't talked to in a while, even, even if it's, you know, not someone that you're looking to date, like, just like how, how do you keep relationships going over time?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So how to meet people in the moment, how to keep relationships going over time. And then I would say how to have fun doing that all because it, I, you know, we talked about angst in the beginning. So how do you, how to turn that angst into excitement, like how to use that angst to get past it. You know, maybe it's just being brave or maybe it's just figuring out a way to make it fun.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So how to meet people in the moment, how to keep relationships going over time. And then I would say how to have fun doing that all because it, I, you know, we talked about angst in the beginning. So how do you, how to turn that angst into excitement, like how to use that angst to get past it. You know, maybe it's just being brave or maybe it's just figuring out a way to make it fun.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So how to meet people in the moment, how to keep relationships going over time. And then I would say how to have fun doing that all because it, I, you know, we talked about angst in the beginning. So how do you, how to turn that angst into excitement, like how to use that angst to get past it. You know, maybe it's just being brave or maybe it's just figuring out a way to make it fun.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

But how to turn that angst into excitement. So those would be the three things in my course. I love it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

But how to turn that angst into excitement. So those would be the three things in my course. I love it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

But how to turn that angst into excitement. So those would be the three things in my course. I love it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

You know, if you're afraid, like, say you're afraid or make a joke out of it or admit some of your failings or, you know, say that you had a bad day. I feel like, you know, it's like not really about reading minds because you can't.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

You know, if you're afraid, like, say you're afraid or make a joke out of it or admit some of your failings or, you know, say that you had a bad day. I feel like, you know, it's like not really about reading minds because you can't.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

You know, if you're afraid, like, say you're afraid or make a joke out of it or admit some of your failings or, you know, say that you had a bad day. I feel like, you know, it's like not really about reading minds because you can't.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

actually find out what's going on in someone's mind and the way you do that is by asking questions to getting them to talk like you don't have to read minds you know you can you can actually find out what someone's thinking by having a really great conversation with them so part of that conversation might include being a little vulnerable and

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

actually find out what's going on in someone's mind and the way you do that is by asking questions to getting them to talk like you don't have to read minds you know you can you can actually find out what someone's thinking by having a really great conversation with them so part of that conversation might include being a little vulnerable and

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

actually find out what's going on in someone's mind and the way you do that is by asking questions to getting them to talk like you don't have to read minds you know you can you can actually find out what someone's thinking by having a really great conversation with them so part of that conversation might include being a little vulnerable and

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

putting yourself out there, like letting them see the real you and not being afraid, not having that fear of seeing the real you, minimizing those stakes a little so that it's not so like every sentence isn't so important.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

putting yourself out there, like letting them see the real you and not being afraid, not having that fear of seeing the real you, minimizing those stakes a little so that it's not so like every sentence isn't so important.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

putting yourself out there, like letting them see the real you and not being afraid, not having that fear of seeing the real you, minimizing those stakes a little so that it's not so like every sentence isn't so important.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So that advice would be Don't go on a date only thinking of yourself. Like, I feel like I screwed up so many dates because I was just there thinking, okay, okay, what is he thinking about me? Do I look okay? Does he like me? Am I going to say something stupid? Like, I'm having a running conversation in my head with myself. Where does that leave my date?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So that advice would be Don't go on a date only thinking of yourself. Like, I feel like I screwed up so many dates because I was just there thinking, okay, okay, what is he thinking about me? Do I look okay? Does he like me? Am I going to say something stupid? Like, I'm having a running conversation in my head with myself. Where does that leave my date?