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Lisa Hickey

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

They think that it would actually be easier to have surgery that would be excruciatingly painful than to go out and do something like improv where they might fail, it might embarrass them, it might make them uncomfortable. And it's like, no, those are the types of things you should be doing.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

They think that it would actually be easier to have surgery that would be excruciatingly painful than to go out and do something like improv where they might fail, it might embarrass them, it might make them uncomfortable. And it's like, no, those are the types of things you should be doing.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Exactly. Yeah, I know. Boy, that That breaks my heart, too, the firefighter who is not brave enough to talk to a woman next to him. You know, I also want to say to men, it's like, as women, we're just humans, too. You know, we're... We really are. So it's okay if you stumble. You know, I think we talked a little bit about, like, sort of that self-awareness or self-effacing nature.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Exactly. Yeah, I know. Boy, that That breaks my heart, too, the firefighter who is not brave enough to talk to a woman next to him. You know, I also want to say to men, it's like, as women, we're just humans, too. You know, we're... We really are. So it's okay if you stumble. You know, I think we talked a little bit about, like, sort of that self-awareness or self-effacing nature.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Exactly. Yeah, I know. Boy, that That breaks my heart, too, the firefighter who is not brave enough to talk to a woman next to him. You know, I also want to say to men, it's like, as women, we're just humans, too. You know, we're... We really are. So it's okay if you stumble. You know, I think we talked a little bit about, like, sort of that self-awareness or self-effacing nature.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Like, if you make a mistake, just... own up to it. Say, oh my God, that must have sounded like the stupidest thing ever that I just said. And it's okay. Just admit it and move on and don't worry so much about it. Really try to get out of your own head and more into the moment.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Like, if you make a mistake, just... own up to it. Say, oh my God, that must have sounded like the stupidest thing ever that I just said. And it's okay. Just admit it and move on and don't worry so much about it. Really try to get out of your own head and more into the moment.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Like, if you make a mistake, just... own up to it. Say, oh my God, that must have sounded like the stupidest thing ever that I just said. And it's okay. Just admit it and move on and don't worry so much about it. Really try to get out of your own head and more into the moment.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So by the way, I think this should be taught in schools. We spend so much time on these hard skills, which are important. Math, science, reading, all of that should be taught. But isn't love like the greatest thing of all? Like, shouldn't we teach people how to actually love and have relationships and have authentic connections? I feel like we don't teach that nearly enough.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So by the way, I think this should be taught in schools. We spend so much time on these hard skills, which are important. Math, science, reading, all of that should be taught. But isn't love like the greatest thing of all? Like, shouldn't we teach people how to actually love and have relationships and have authentic connections? I feel like we don't teach that nearly enough.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So by the way, I think this should be taught in schools. We spend so much time on these hard skills, which are important. Math, science, reading, all of that should be taught. But isn't love like the greatest thing of all? Like, shouldn't we teach people how to actually love and have relationships and have authentic connections? I feel like we don't teach that nearly enough.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So my course would be about, and some of these things that we've already mentioned, but really on how to be there in the moment with somebody. Like, how to have a back and forth that keeps going where you're

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So my course would be about, and some of these things that we've already mentioned, but really on how to be there in the moment with somebody. Like, how to have a back and forth that keeps going where you're

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So my course would be about, and some of these things that we've already mentioned, but really on how to be there in the moment with somebody. Like, how to have a back and forth that keeps going where you're

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

acknowledge it you're actively listening and then you're acknowledging what they say and then you're adding something else to that and then when that topic winds down you move on to another one but you don't jump from lily pad to lily pad you don't keep going in a bunch of different directions you ask questions that go a little deeper so

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

acknowledge it you're actively listening and then you're acknowledging what they say and then you're adding something else to that and then when that topic winds down you move on to another one but you don't jump from lily pad to lily pad you don't keep going in a bunch of different directions you ask questions that go a little deeper so

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

acknowledge it you're actively listening and then you're acknowledging what they say and then you're adding something else to that and then when that topic winds down you move on to another one but you don't jump from lily pad to lily pad you don't keep going in a bunch of different directions you ask questions that go a little deeper so

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

like that would be the first piece of it is just all about how to communicate in the moment. But then I also think there should be, it should be taught like how to follow up, right? Like sometimes you'll have a great date or you'll have a good interaction with someone, you know, a stranger maybe, and then you let it go because you don't know what to do next.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

like that would be the first piece of it is just all about how to communicate in the moment. But then I also think there should be, it should be taught like how to follow up, right? Like sometimes you'll have a great date or you'll have a good interaction with someone, you know, a stranger maybe, and then you let it go because you don't know what to do next.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

like that would be the first piece of it is just all about how to communicate in the moment. But then I also think there should be, it should be taught like how to follow up, right? Like sometimes you'll have a great date or you'll have a good interaction with someone, you know, a stranger maybe, and then you let it go because you don't know what to do next.