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Lisa Hickey

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Three books. They're actually on advertising and some of the best ad campaigns in the past because that's what I did before I got into social media, before I started running the Goodman Project. I was in advertising. Okay. That always helped like trying to think of like clever things to say because if you can sell someone like a shoe, you can talk to them about anything.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yeah, no, I think it's a little of both. I think that things in the pop culture are good because they're shared experiences, right? So if you're talking about a book that a lot of people know, it's not just something you've read, something they've read. It's something everybody has a point of view about. So that's why I do like...

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yeah, no, I think it's a little of both. I think that things in the pop culture are good because they're shared experiences, right? So if you're talking about a book that a lot of people know, it's not just something you've read, something they've read. It's something everybody has a point of view about. So that's why I do like...

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yeah, no, I think it's a little of both. I think that things in the pop culture are good because they're shared experiences, right? So if you're talking about a book that a lot of people know, it's not just something you've read, something they've read. It's something everybody has a point of view about. So that's why I do like...

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Again, it sort of depends on what the person's into, but whether it's books or movies or news events or just something where you can get a feeling of what their likes are, what their dislikes are, what they find interesting about things that are out there in the culture. I think that's always a good conversation starter.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Again, it sort of depends on what the person's into, but whether it's books or movies or news events or just something where you can get a feeling of what their likes are, what their dislikes are, what they find interesting about things that are out there in the culture. I think that's always a good conversation starter.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Again, it sort of depends on what the person's into, but whether it's books or movies or news events or just something where you can get a feeling of what their likes are, what their dislikes are, what they find interesting about things that are out there in the culture. I think that's always a good conversation starter.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yeah, that question kind of broke my heart a little bit. And what you didn't mention was that he also said that it cost $100,000 to get the surgery. And I was thinking, what could you better, you know, surely there are things you could better spend $100,000 on than that. And to go through that pain. So I think that it, I do feel like dating has gotten a little harder. There's a lot of

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yeah, that question kind of broke my heart a little bit. And what you didn't mention was that he also said that it cost $100,000 to get the surgery. And I was thinking, what could you better, you know, surely there are things you could better spend $100,000 on than that. And to go through that pain. So I think that it, I do feel like dating has gotten a little harder. There's a lot of

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yeah, that question kind of broke my heart a little bit. And what you didn't mention was that he also said that it cost $100,000 to get the surgery. And I was thinking, what could you better, you know, surely there are things you could better spend $100,000 on than that. And to go through that pain. So I think that it, I do feel like dating has gotten a little harder. There's a lot of

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

There's a lot of fear. There's a lot of divisiveness in the world right now. There's this feeling of not being good enough or not knowing the rules. What I hear a lot, and I'm sure you hear this too, is like, well, everyone else seems to know all the rules, but somehow I didn't get that instruction manual.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

There's a lot of fear. There's a lot of divisiveness in the world right now. There's this feeling of not being good enough or not knowing the rules. What I hear a lot, and I'm sure you hear this too, is like, well, everyone else seems to know all the rules, but somehow I didn't get that instruction manual.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

There's a lot of fear. There's a lot of divisiveness in the world right now. There's this feeling of not being good enough or not knowing the rules. What I hear a lot, and I'm sure you hear this too, is like, well, everyone else seems to know all the rules, but somehow I didn't get that instruction manual.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

But yeah, the idea that someone would have to get their legs broken and be in pain and spend all that money because they think that an other two inches of height is the one thing that's going to change, I mean, that just seemed so sad to me. And I really liked your answer, which was you don't need a more towering body. What you need is a more... towering self confidence, like,

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

But yeah, the idea that someone would have to get their legs broken and be in pain and spend all that money because they think that an other two inches of height is the one thing that's going to change, I mean, that just seemed so sad to me. And I really liked your answer, which was you don't need a more towering body. What you need is a more... towering self confidence, like,

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

But yeah, the idea that someone would have to get their legs broken and be in pain and spend all that money because they think that an other two inches of height is the one thing that's going to change, I mean, that just seemed so sad to me. And I really liked your answer, which was you don't need a more towering body. What you need is a more... towering self confidence, like,

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

go into a room and just project what your good qualities are you know maybe it's being funny and if you don't know how to be funny that's something you can take an improv you can learn that you know you can learn that it's a lot cheaper and less painful exactly a lot less but you know it's funny because somehow i think that sometimes people think that would be harder like

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

go into a room and just project what your good qualities are you know maybe it's being funny and if you don't know how to be funny that's something you can take an improv you can learn that you know you can learn that it's a lot cheaper and less painful exactly a lot less but you know it's funny because somehow i think that sometimes people think that would be harder like

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

go into a room and just project what your good qualities are you know maybe it's being funny and if you don't know how to be funny that's something you can take an improv you can learn that you know you can learn that it's a lot cheaper and less painful exactly a lot less but you know it's funny because somehow i think that sometimes people think that would be harder like

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

They think that it would actually be easier to have surgery that would be excruciatingly painful than to go out and do something like improv where they might fail, it might embarrass them, it might make them uncomfortable. And it's like, no, those are the types of things you should be doing.