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Lisa Hickey

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219 total appearances

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Absolutely. Well, it also gets back to what we were talking about before with like passion, right? Like having something you're passionate about. So if you can get somebody to talk about something that they're passionate about, they're going to talk about that in a really excited way.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Absolutely. Well, it also gets back to what we were talking about before with like passion, right? Like having something you're passionate about. So if you can get somebody to talk about something that they're passionate about, they're going to talk about that in a really excited way.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Absolutely. Well, it also gets back to what we were talking about before with like passion, right? Like having something you're passionate about. So if you can get somebody to talk about something that they're passionate about, they're going to talk about that in a really excited way.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And then they're going to remember that conversation as having been really exciting because they were so excited when they were talking about it. Right. You know, it all kind of connects. It's like finding out what the other person is passionate about, getting them to share that with you, then having your enthusiasm rub off on them.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And then they're going to remember that conversation as having been really exciting because they were so excited when they were talking about it. Right. You know, it all kind of connects. It's like finding out what the other person is passionate about, getting them to share that with you, then having your enthusiasm rub off on them.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And then they're going to remember that conversation as having been really exciting because they were so excited when they were talking about it. Right. You know, it all kind of connects. It's like finding out what the other person is passionate about, getting them to share that with you, then having your enthusiasm rub off on them.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And I just feel like that's when conversations get really exciting.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And I just feel like that's when conversations get really exciting.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And I just feel like that's when conversations get really exciting.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yeah, I really think it depends on the woman. And that's why sort of seeing, you know, being an active listener, understanding like what is exciting to them personally and diving into that. But you had written a column once that had, that talked about how to get away from like the interview type questions and ask questions that were more fun and flirty.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yeah, I really think it depends on the woman. And that's why sort of seeing, you know, being an active listener, understanding like what is exciting to them personally and diving into that. But you had written a column once that had, that talked about how to get away from like the interview type questions and ask questions that were more fun and flirty.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yeah, I really think it depends on the woman. And that's why sort of seeing, you know, being an active listener, understanding like what is exciting to them personally and diving into that. But you had written a column once that had, that talked about how to get away from like the interview type questions and ask questions that were more fun and flirty.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So I think one of them was something like, what's the best thing that happened to you today besides meeting me? I love that because that sort of has everything that we've talked about, right? Yeah. Like, you're trying to really find out something very specific about them, like what makes them happy, what, what their day is like, but then you're also a little self-effacing.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So I think one of them was something like, what's the best thing that happened to you today besides meeting me? I love that because that sort of has everything that we've talked about, right? Yeah. Like, you're trying to really find out something very specific about them, like what makes them happy, what, what their day is like, but then you're also a little self-effacing.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

So I think one of them was something like, what's the best thing that happened to you today besides meeting me? I love that because that sort of has everything that we've talked about, right? Yeah. Like, you're trying to really find out something very specific about them, like what makes them happy, what, what their day is like, but then you're also a little self-effacing.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

You're also have a little humor in there. You're obviously not, um, being taken seriously by saying besides me, but it comes across as very confident. And so, so I just like love that question.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

You're also have a little humor in there. You're obviously not, um, being taken seriously by saying besides me, but it comes across as very confident. And so, so I just like love that question.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

You're also have a little humor in there. You're obviously not, um, being taken seriously by saying besides me, but it comes across as very confident. And so, so I just like love that question.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Three books. They're actually on advertising and some of the best ad campaigns in the past because that's what I did before I got into social media, before I started running the Goodman Project. I was in advertising. Okay. That always helped like trying to think of like clever things to say because if you can sell someone like a shoe, you can talk to them about anything.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Three books. They're actually on advertising and some of the best ad campaigns in the past because that's what I did before I got into social media, before I started running the Goodman Project. I was in advertising. Okay. That always helped like trying to think of like clever things to say because if you can sell someone like a shoe, you can talk to them about anything.