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Lisa Hickey

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yeah, that's, that's a great question. I think, um, One thing that comes up a lot is when a man isn't actually listening and they'll interrupt a woman because they're so quick to want to say what they have to say. So it's almost like while the woman's talking, they're in their own head trying to figure out what they're going to say next. And they can't wait to say that.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yeah, that's, that's a great question. I think, um, One thing that comes up a lot is when a man isn't actually listening and they'll interrupt a woman because they're so quick to want to say what they have to say. So it's almost like while the woman's talking, they're in their own head trying to figure out what they're going to say next. And they can't wait to say that.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Exactly. So I know that that's one thing. I think that sometimes men take the self-confidence thing to the extreme so they come off as arrogant, as if like, oh, I'm just better than anyone else. So I think it's important to understand that self-confidence has to come

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Exactly. So I know that that's one thing. I think that sometimes men take the self-confidence thing to the extreme so they come off as arrogant, as if like, oh, I'm just better than anyone else. So I think it's important to understand that self-confidence has to come

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Exactly. So I know that that's one thing. I think that sometimes men take the self-confidence thing to the extreme so they come off as arrogant, as if like, oh, I'm just better than anyone else. So I think it's important to understand that self-confidence has to come

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

from a place deep inside you that isn't that you're better than the other person, but that you're equals, equal but different in a way. You have your own things that are going to be totally unique. Nobody else can bring to the table what you're bringing, but it does not by any means mean you're better than them. And so I feel like that's an important skill to have.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

from a place deep inside you that isn't that you're better than the other person, but that you're equals, equal but different in a way. You have your own things that are going to be totally unique. Nobody else can bring to the table what you're bringing, but it does not by any means mean you're better than them. And so I feel like that's an important skill to have.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

from a place deep inside you that isn't that you're better than the other person, but that you're equals, equal but different in a way. You have your own things that are going to be totally unique. Nobody else can bring to the table what you're bringing, but it does not by any means mean you're better than them. And so I feel like that's an important skill to have.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

That's okay because you're you.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

That's okay because you're you.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

That's okay because you're you.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

I love that. I think that's super attractive. Yeah. I think, I think, In terms of attraction, that's like right up there in the top 10 in terms of what is attractive, I think. And why is that? Well, it's a combination of self-awareness, but also kindness in a way, in some funny way, because you're like really trying to understand the other person and what's unique about them.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

I love that. I think that's super attractive. Yeah. I think, I think, In terms of attraction, that's like right up there in the top 10 in terms of what is attractive, I think. And why is that? Well, it's a combination of self-awareness, but also kindness in a way, in some funny way, because you're like really trying to understand the other person and what's unique about them.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

I love that. I think that's super attractive. Yeah. I think, I think, In terms of attraction, that's like right up there in the top 10 in terms of what is attractive, I think. And why is that? Well, it's a combination of self-awareness, but also kindness in a way, in some funny way, because you're like really trying to understand the other person and what's unique about them.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And then what's unique about you? And when they say sparks fly or there's chemistry, it's like when you both get that about each other that, oh, this person is a little bit different than me, but that's so cool. And yet we're also vibing on some things that are similar. I feel like that's when the sparks really start to fly.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And then what's unique about you? And when they say sparks fly or there's chemistry, it's like when you both get that about each other that, oh, this person is a little bit different than me, but that's so cool. And yet we're also vibing on some things that are similar. I feel like that's when the sparks really start to fly.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And then what's unique about you? And when they say sparks fly or there's chemistry, it's like when you both get that about each other that, oh, this person is a little bit different than me, but that's so cool. And yet we're also vibing on some things that are similar. I feel like that's when the sparks really start to fly.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Exactly. It's almost like a little dance. Yeah, I think that's great.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Exactly. It's almost like a little dance. Yeah, I think that's great.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Exactly. It's almost like a little dance. Yeah, I think that's great.