Lisa Hickey
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Yeah, that's, that's a great question. I think, um, One thing that comes up a lot is when a man isn't actually listening and they'll interrupt a woman because they're so quick to want to say what they have to say. So it's almost like while the woman's talking, they're in their own head trying to figure out what they're going to say next. And they can't wait to say that.
Yeah, that's, that's a great question. I think, um, One thing that comes up a lot is when a man isn't actually listening and they'll interrupt a woman because they're so quick to want to say what they have to say. So it's almost like while the woman's talking, they're in their own head trying to figure out what they're going to say next. And they can't wait to say that.
Exactly. So I know that that's one thing. I think that sometimes men take the self-confidence thing to the extreme so they come off as arrogant, as if like, oh, I'm just better than anyone else. So I think it's important to understand that self-confidence has to come
Exactly. So I know that that's one thing. I think that sometimes men take the self-confidence thing to the extreme so they come off as arrogant, as if like, oh, I'm just better than anyone else. So I think it's important to understand that self-confidence has to come
Exactly. So I know that that's one thing. I think that sometimes men take the self-confidence thing to the extreme so they come off as arrogant, as if like, oh, I'm just better than anyone else. So I think it's important to understand that self-confidence has to come
from a place deep inside you that isn't that you're better than the other person, but that you're equals, equal but different in a way. You have your own things that are going to be totally unique. Nobody else can bring to the table what you're bringing, but it does not by any means mean you're better than them. And so I feel like that's an important skill to have.
from a place deep inside you that isn't that you're better than the other person, but that you're equals, equal but different in a way. You have your own things that are going to be totally unique. Nobody else can bring to the table what you're bringing, but it does not by any means mean you're better than them. And so I feel like that's an important skill to have.
from a place deep inside you that isn't that you're better than the other person, but that you're equals, equal but different in a way. You have your own things that are going to be totally unique. Nobody else can bring to the table what you're bringing, but it does not by any means mean you're better than them. And so I feel like that's an important skill to have.
That's okay because you're you.
That's okay because you're you.
That's okay because you're you.
I love that. I think that's super attractive. Yeah. I think, I think, In terms of attraction, that's like right up there in the top 10 in terms of what is attractive, I think. And why is that? Well, it's a combination of self-awareness, but also kindness in a way, in some funny way, because you're like really trying to understand the other person and what's unique about them.
I love that. I think that's super attractive. Yeah. I think, I think, In terms of attraction, that's like right up there in the top 10 in terms of what is attractive, I think. And why is that? Well, it's a combination of self-awareness, but also kindness in a way, in some funny way, because you're like really trying to understand the other person and what's unique about them.
I love that. I think that's super attractive. Yeah. I think, I think, In terms of attraction, that's like right up there in the top 10 in terms of what is attractive, I think. And why is that? Well, it's a combination of self-awareness, but also kindness in a way, in some funny way, because you're like really trying to understand the other person and what's unique about them.
And then what's unique about you? And when they say sparks fly or there's chemistry, it's like when you both get that about each other that, oh, this person is a little bit different than me, but that's so cool. And yet we're also vibing on some things that are similar. I feel like that's when the sparks really start to fly.
And then what's unique about you? And when they say sparks fly or there's chemistry, it's like when you both get that about each other that, oh, this person is a little bit different than me, but that's so cool. And yet we're also vibing on some things that are similar. I feel like that's when the sparks really start to fly.
And then what's unique about you? And when they say sparks fly or there's chemistry, it's like when you both get that about each other that, oh, this person is a little bit different than me, but that's so cool. And yet we're also vibing on some things that are similar. I feel like that's when the sparks really start to fly.
Exactly. It's almost like a little dance. Yeah, I think that's great.
Exactly. It's almost like a little dance. Yeah, I think that's great.
Exactly. It's almost like a little dance. Yeah, I think that's great.