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Lisa Hickey

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

What you're doing is practicing making an authentic connection. Yeah. with anyone so that you know what it is about yourself that people respond to so that you can figure out what you're interested in, right? Like what is it about people that fascinates you? What do you like most? And then you'll be able to find your ideal partner if you know what it is you're looking for.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

I love that advice.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

I love that advice.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

I love that advice.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

But what you said about compliments, one of the articles on our site that has gotten the most views out of any, and I'm talking tens of millions of views, is six types of compliments men would like to hear more often. Because we don't, you know, there is some weird thing about like complimenting men, which people are sometimes afraid of, like giving real, true, authentic compliments.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

But what you said about compliments, one of the articles on our site that has gotten the most views out of any, and I'm talking tens of millions of views, is six types of compliments men would like to hear more often. Because we don't, you know, there is some weird thing about like complimenting men, which people are sometimes afraid of, like giving real, true, authentic compliments.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

But what you said about compliments, one of the articles on our site that has gotten the most views out of any, and I'm talking tens of millions of views, is six types of compliments men would like to hear more often. Because we don't, you know, there is some weird thing about like complimenting men, which people are sometimes afraid of, like giving real, true, authentic compliments.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And so one example that they talk about in this article is, Compliment a man in a way that shows that you believe in him, right? That you have faith that he can do what he says to do. Or compliment him in a way that says they're trustworthy. A compliment doesn't have to be about appearance or success.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And so one example that they talk about in this article is, Compliment a man in a way that shows that you believe in him, right? That you have faith that he can do what he says to do. Or compliment him in a way that says they're trustworthy. A compliment doesn't have to be about appearance or success.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

And so one example that they talk about in this article is, Compliment a man in a way that shows that you believe in him, right? That you have faith that he can do what he says to do. Or compliment him in a way that says they're trustworthy. A compliment doesn't have to be about appearance or success.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

A compliment that really rings true is about some part of that person that you see that others may not. And I feel like that's one of the best types of compliments.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

A compliment that really rings true is about some part of that person that you see that others may not. And I feel like that's one of the best types of compliments.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

A compliment that really rings true is about some part of that person that you see that others may not. And I feel like that's one of the best types of compliments.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yes, specificity is a big one. I mean, I think that's when people get in trouble with compliments is that they just say something that sounds like anybody could have said that they themselves have said a million times before. So it comes out almost robotic-like.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yes, specificity is a big one. I mean, I think that's when people get in trouble with compliments is that they just say something that sounds like anybody could have said that they themselves have said a million times before. So it comes out almost robotic-like.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yes, specificity is a big one. I mean, I think that's when people get in trouble with compliments is that they just say something that sounds like anybody could have said that they themselves have said a million times before. So it comes out almost robotic-like.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

But if you're really there in the moment with someone, it's like it's what you said when you met your now girlfriend. It's like you're really focusing on something that got you to respond to them in a unique way. So it's not something that you could say to everyone, right? You wouldn't say that to every girl, every woman that you met. Right.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

But if you're really there in the moment with someone, it's like it's what you said when you met your now girlfriend. It's like you're really focusing on something that got you to respond to them in a unique way. So it's not something that you could say to everyone, right? You wouldn't say that to every girl, every woman that you met. Right.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

But if you're really there in the moment with someone, it's like it's what you said when you met your now girlfriend. It's like you're really focusing on something that got you to respond to them in a unique way. So it's not something that you could say to everyone, right? You wouldn't say that to every girl, every woman that you met. Right.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Yeah, that's, that's a great question. I think, um, One thing that comes up a lot is when a man isn't actually listening and they'll interrupt a woman because they're so quick to want to say what they have to say. So it's almost like while the woman's talking, they're in their own head trying to figure out what they're going to say next. And they can't wait to say that.