Listener (Aaron)

But it almost feels like he's using the cat as a ploy to not move in together. What do you think would be the best course of action? I would appreciate any advice. Ideal outcome would be that we find a way to either come to a compromise and move forward. Additional info, his mom hates cats. And upon first meeting me, asked if I had any.

She then looked at Aaron and said, you don't have any cats, right? Let's keep it that way. She's very involved in his decor and will constantly buy things for him.

She then looked at Aaron and said, you don't have any cats, right? Let's keep it that way. She's very involved in his decor and will constantly buy things for him.

She then looked at Aaron and said, you don't have any cats, right? Let's keep it that way. She's very involved in his decor and will constantly buy things for him.

Yeah, we've had our fair share.

Yeah, we've had our fair share.

Yeah, we've had our fair share.

Smokey.

Smokey.

Smokey.

It's very cruel.

It's very cruel.

It's very cruel.

I mean, you're kind of already there, though, to be honest. I think when you commit to an animal, I hope that people are committing to that animal for that animal's life. Your cat's only seven. Your cat, realistically, if it's seven, could live another 20 years.

I mean, you're kind of already there, though, to be honest. I think when you commit to an animal, I hope that people are committing to that animal for that animal's life. Your cat's only seven. Your cat, realistically, if it's seven, could live another 20 years.

I mean, you're kind of already there, though, to be honest. I think when you commit to an animal, I hope that people are committing to that animal for that animal's life. Your cat's only seven. Your cat, realistically, if it's seven, could live another 20 years.

I mean, so what are you going to do?

I mean, so what are you going to do?

I mean, so what are you going to do?

Not live with Aaron for 20 years. To put a cat in a little guest bedroom and that's the only room that cat gets?