Listener (Aaron)

Is it realistic to hope for a partner who fits me? Signed, feeling jittery about protecting my agility without ending up in captivity and losing my precious liberty when I need the flexibility to pursue all the possibilities.

Is it realistic to hope for a partner who fits me? Signed, feeling jittery about protecting my agility without ending up in captivity and losing my precious liberty when I need the flexibility to pursue all the possibilities.

So wild. What a double life that is, huh?

So wild. What a double life that is, huh?

So wild. What a double life that is, huh?

She's one of a kind, that's for sure.

She's one of a kind, that's for sure.

She's one of a kind, that's for sure.

Right, but then she's also saying, I really crave true intimacy.

Right, but then she's also saying, I really crave true intimacy.

Right, but then she's also saying, I really crave true intimacy.

She's treating her personality as very fixed. And then trying to square that with being in a meaningful relationship, which kind of demands the opposite of most of these qualities, I think.

She's treating her personality as very fixed. And then trying to square that with being in a meaningful relationship, which kind of demands the opposite of most of these qualities, I think.

She's treating her personality as very fixed. And then trying to square that with being in a meaningful relationship, which kind of demands the opposite of most of these qualities, I think.

Right. Then I would say, yes, it's possible to find a partner who fits you, but it'll probably be harder than it is for most people, I would imagine. And the relationship might not be as intimate as you say you want.

Right. Then I would say, yes, it's possible to find a partner who fits you, but it'll probably be harder than it is for most people, I would imagine. And the relationship might not be as intimate as you say you want.

Right. Then I would say, yes, it's possible to find a partner who fits you, but it'll probably be harder than it is for most people, I would imagine. And the relationship might not be as intimate as you say you want.

So, okay, let's talk about some of those things. Because like you said, the tension that she feels between wanting to experience true love and feeling like she's going to lose her identity, that is a very universal fear, as we said. I have that too, honestly.

So, okay, let's talk about some of those things. Because like you said, the tension that she feels between wanting to experience true love and feeling like she's going to lose her identity, that is a very universal fear, as we said. I have that too, honestly.

So, okay, let's talk about some of those things. Because like you said, the tension that she feels between wanting to experience true love and feeling like she's going to lose her identity, that is a very universal fear, as we said. I have that too, honestly.