Listener Ezra
Appearances
Hidden Brain
Relationships 2.0: Why Did You Do That? + Your Questions Answered: Fred Luskin on Grudges
We should do this again.
Hidden Brain
Relationships 2.0: Why Did You Do That? + Your Questions Answered: Fred Luskin on Grudges
Oh, no, thanks. I can't drink coffee late at night. It keeps me up.
Hidden Brain
Relationships 2.0: Why Did You Do That? + Your Questions Answered: Fred Luskin on Grudges
Okay.
Hidden Brain
Relationships 2.0: Why Did You Do That? + Your Questions Answered: Fred Luskin on Grudges
Yeah, take it easy.
Hidden Brain
Relationships 2.0: Why Did You Do That? + Your Questions Answered: Fred Luskin on Grudges
For years now, I've been holding a grudge with my family regarding their political stance, especially around queer and transgender rights. My parents have voted for Trump, and I cannot tolerate the emotional cognitive dissonance of having parents who on one hand love me very much and on the other hand are literally voting to take my rights away as a U.S. citizen.
Hidden Brain
Relationships 2.0: Why Did You Do That? + Your Questions Answered: Fred Luskin on Grudges
I am stuck between wanting to forgive, wanting to protect myself, feeling fear and rage and love altogether. I would love some advice and help for how to move forward in a way that feels grounded, loving, protective, respectful.