Listener Lydia

How can I tell whether what I'm doing, which is just I no longer interact with her, I don't speak to her anymore, whether that's truly a grudge or is it just me keeping myself safe?

How can I tell whether what I'm doing, which is just I no longer interact with her, I don't speak to her anymore, whether that's truly a grudge or is it just me keeping myself safe?

I have been living with what I imagine can be called a grudge towards my sister for the past almost eight years. How can I tell whether what I'm doing, which is just I no longer interact with her, I don't speak to her anymore, whether that's truly a grudge or is it just me keeping myself safe and my... peace of mind.

I have been living with what I imagine can be called a grudge towards my sister for the past almost eight years. How can I tell whether what I'm doing, which is just I no longer interact with her, I don't speak to her anymore, whether that's truly a grudge or is it just me keeping myself safe and my... peace of mind.

I can't imagine that all transgressions need to result in forgiveness and the ability to continue the relationship as though nothing happened. Or am I wrong about that?

I can't imagine that all transgressions need to result in forgiveness and the ability to continue the relationship as though nothing happened. Or am I wrong about that?

How can I tell whether what I'm doing, which is just I no longer interact with her, I don't speak to her anymore, whether that's truly a grudge or is it just me keeping myself safe?

I have been living with what I imagine can be called a grudge towards my sister for the past almost eight years. How can I tell whether what I'm doing, which is just I no longer interact with her, I don't speak to her anymore, whether that's truly a grudge or is it just me keeping myself safe and my... peace of mind.

I can't imagine that all transgressions need to result in forgiveness and the ability to continue the relationship as though nothing happened. Or am I wrong about that?