Logan Urie

Great.

Let's set that up.

Do I not want to ever see you?

Great, I'll close out the conversation.

And so I think that people don't understand the necessary steps of looking at one person at a time and saying, do I move forward or not?

I'm really glad that this person asked this question because I've actually done a lot of research on this with Gen Z. So Gen Z are digital natives.

They have something called digital body language.

We all have this, but this is the unspoken messages that we send through our communication online.

So for example, body language, when I sit back in my seat and I cross my arms, that gives you a different impression than when I'm leaning forward, very interested in what you're saying.

Yes.

We do the same thing online.

So if you use periods or not, if you ask questions or you don't ask questions, how long it takes you to respond to a message.

And what I saw is that a lot of different generations tune into digital body language, but Gen Z is very focused on it.

And so they play these games of, I saw exactly how many hours it took for her to respond.

So I'm gonna wait that plus an hour to respond.

Nobody wins when you play games.

The way to win is to find someone that you like, invest in the relationship, get off the app, get into a relationship, and you never have to date again.

But when you're sitting there playing games and overanalyzing response times, I feel like you're missing the forest for the trees.

I think just be yourself can be hard for people to follow because I do hear from a lot of people where they're like, just be myself, but the most positive version of myself, just be myself, but the self that everyone likes.

So what I would say is that if you opt into the game, then you're both going to play the game of waiting for a long time.