Louise

Okay.

So I think maybe that's kind of why the fear is there.

So... In the past, he's brought up the fact that the frequency is not as much as he would like.

Okay.

But I...

I don't want to like make excuses, but I do, you know, work a full-time job and I also have a, um, connective tissue disorder, uh, that comes with fatigue.

So some days work is really all I have energy for, but I've tried to make some changes in my life, like how I spend what energy I do have.

Uh,

to make sure that I am prioritizing our marriage in that way.

Okay.

And I'm not, you know, great at it necessarily, but I try.

But then, like, after that kind of got better, the next complaint was that the quality of it wasn't what he wanted.

And, you know, it feels like a lot of pressure on me.

Right.

And I've expressed these things to him, and in the last few months, he's told me that he's just kind of trying to come to the reality of what it is instead of what his ideal was.

I believe I've already told him that.

I don't really remember his response.

I think most of the time when I do say that I'm scared that he's going to leave me,

He does say, like, I'm not leaving you.

Like, I love you.