Lucy Jackson

But I think if you can even just gaslight yourself into, like, I've got a good story.

Our friend broke up with a boy years ago and then after they broke up, like, he dumped her, like, plain as day, cold hard, dumped.

And she was, like, putting all of her cards on the table and he was like, nuh-uh.

And then he would do little things that were like, to be fair, kind of unusual.

But she would... Well, I don't even think he was doing it to get to like her per se.

I just think he was also going through the fact that... Like he was also sad that they broke up, but he was done.

And she was reading into everything that he would do.

And I remember just... Because I've been there.

I've been there and I have done that.

And I was like...

Babe, this is so easy for me to say when I'm not in your position, but if I could give you any advice, you need to start taking, if he's saying I don't want to be with you, that's what he means.

I know.

He doesn't mean because I'm too in love with you and that's why I can't be with you.

You hold on to what you want to hear.

It is, but I think it's like, you know.

Yeah, for sure.

You really can.

Okay, next one.

Don't chase anyone.

Anything you chase will run away from you.