Lucy Meggeson

but maybe not well the question is do you want one I think you could I think you can get one pretty easily but do you this is and this is the million dollar question like what what is the value and again I feel like I have to say at this point I feel like we're gonna get hate for this I know but I feel like I'm like I need to clarify that what value do you bring what value do men bring but I

I fucking love men.

I have a brother.

I had a dad.

My dad died.

But I've had many wonderful men in my life, not least lovely, lovely boyfriends.

However, I wouldn't get into another relationship with someone unless I felt that they were going to add true value to my life.

And I think this is what

As women, we really have to ask ourselves that question because do you know what, do you know one of the, or two actually, of the main benefits that I personally feel about being single?

Oh, what?

Number one, peace.

Peace.

And number two is headspace and emotional stability.

When I've been in relationships in the past, and I've had relationships from the age of literally like 13, 14, right up until I've been single for eight and a half years, right?

And I'm now 50.

In those relationships, even with lovely guys, there is something about, you know, you're up, you're down.

There's something to stress about.

He's done something to piss you off.

You've done something to piss him off.

There's some kind of issue.