Lucy Meggeson

I think if you're single and all you're doing is going to work in a job that you hate, coming home and watching Netflix and just not feeling very good about your life.

Yeah, your thoughts are going to go to, oh, I need a man.

Oh, I need sex.

But I think when you're really living your life to the full and you're really kind of aiming to kind of reach your potential, whatever the hell that means to you.

And you're having adventures.

You don't need it from... And do you know what?

That's the funny thing is that, like, that excitement, exactly that.

And one thing that, one of the most amazing, remarkable, wonderful things I've discovered since being single, this period of being, this eight-year period of being single, is that...

The excitement that we're all chasing and that we all want, that kind of feeling of wholeness.

Do you know when that is the best it ever is?

Is when it's just you.

When it's because you are pursuing something, you have direction, you have meaning in your life.

And it might just be that I recorded, you know, I interviewed someone for my podcast and it was just the most awesome conversation.

And, you know, those feelings of excitement and kind of wonder are

There's other ways of getting that.

And yes, of course, when you're not having sex, yeah, you're not actually, you're not shagging.

Obviously, you're not getting that scratch itched.

That itched scratch, rather.

But genuinely, I don't miss it.

And also for anyone thinking, well, she must like masturbate furiously.