Madeleine Stewart

Something else that I learned and that I've observed quite a lot, something that joins all three couples together is that open communication.

A lot of people with disability talk very openly about what they like, what they don't like, what they need, how they're feeling.

We check in on each other and that's just not even in the bedroom.

That's just life.

That's how we are.

So can you imagine weaponizing that in the bedroom?

Could you imagine being with a partner, being like, I'm feeling like this.

What are you enjoying?

Like, you're not going to feel nervous.

You're not going to feel shy.

There's something about dating with disability and opening that communication that can be really harnessed and can be really sexy and gorgeous.

And I think that that is a lesson that non-disabled people can learn from us.

If you want a sexy little tip, communication is sexy and you can communicate in very flirty ways, you know, to share what you like, what you don't like.

But also I found that dignity and respect, I think, is at the core of all the good relationships and that's a good sex tip.

But if we're going to go sex toys...

There are some amazing sex toy company, may I say.

I was like, this is my dream day going over to your friend's house and being like, show me all your dillies.

Is that what you guys do on a Sunday?

Yeah.

So the thing is about the disabled community is like we're very innovative and we adapt things and incredible.