Margarita Pasos

So that's the first thing you have to learn. to speak to yourself in the proper way, to use the right language because your focus and your language are everything. I can go to a party with you and we come back and Ray says, okay, how was the party? And you're super positive and you're like, oh my God, look, they had this amazing band and we had so much fun and look at the sunset.

Okay, and then you come to me and I'm like, it was awful. Look at this drunk guy. He vomited all over the carpet and these couple were fighting, right? And it's the same party. but where are you focusing your camera, right? So your focus and your language are the first things that are gonna give you mental peace. I never say problem, I say challenge.

Okay, and then you come to me and I'm like, it was awful. Look at this drunk guy. He vomited all over the carpet and these couple were fighting, right? And it's the same party. but where are you focusing your camera, right? So your focus and your language are the first things that are gonna give you mental peace. I never say problem, I say challenge.

Okay, and then you come to me and I'm like, it was awful. Look at this drunk guy. He vomited all over the carpet and these couple were fighting, right? And it's the same party. but where are you focusing your camera, right? So your focus and your language are the first things that are gonna give you mental peace. I never say problem, I say challenge.

Like people come to me during COVID, a lot of people think I'm a psychologist, I'm not. So they were like, oh my God, I'm stuck in my house. I would tell them, oh, that's a word, you're stuck, but you can also say I'm protected in my house. So once you change the words, the emotion changes, the focus changes. So you have to be very mindful of that.

Like people come to me during COVID, a lot of people think I'm a psychologist, I'm not. So they were like, oh my God, I'm stuck in my house. I would tell them, oh, that's a word, you're stuck, but you can also say I'm protected in my house. So once you change the words, the emotion changes, the focus changes. So you have to be very mindful of that.

Like people come to me during COVID, a lot of people think I'm a psychologist, I'm not. So they were like, oh my God, I'm stuck in my house. I would tell them, oh, that's a word, you're stuck, but you can also say I'm protected in my house. So once you change the words, the emotion changes, the focus changes. So you have to be very mindful of that.

That's in clear water?

That's in clear water?

That's in clear water?

There's two amazing things that you just said. And that's why I love talking to people that are high performance like you. The first one is you focus on what you can control. Mm-hmm. You have money and money gives you options because not everybody could do that. And that's why I keep telling people money is not the root of all evil. Money is very important because money gives you options.

There's two amazing things that you just said. And that's why I love talking to people that are high performance like you. The first one is you focus on what you can control. Mm-hmm. You have money and money gives you options because not everybody could do that. And that's why I keep telling people money is not the root of all evil. Money is very important because money gives you options.

There's two amazing things that you just said. And that's why I love talking to people that are high performance like you. The first one is you focus on what you can control. Mm-hmm. You have money and money gives you options because not everybody could do that. And that's why I keep telling people money is not the root of all evil. Money is very important because money gives you options.

Imagine you're stuck.

Imagine you're stuck.

Imagine you're stuck.

But think about it. If you're stuck in this place and you have no money, you don't have that option. So that's why I tell people money has got to be a priority in your life. It's not the most important thing, but it's top three, top five. So you had options and then you ask the right questions. Because a lot of people, I always say the quality of your life depends on the quality of your questions.

But think about it. If you're stuck in this place and you have no money, you don't have that option. So that's why I tell people money has got to be a priority in your life. It's not the most important thing, but it's top three, top five. So you had options and then you ask the right questions. Because a lot of people, I always say the quality of your life depends on the quality of your questions.

But think about it. If you're stuck in this place and you have no money, you don't have that option. So that's why I tell people money has got to be a priority in your life. It's not the most important thing, but it's top three, top five. So you had options and then you ask the right questions. Because a lot of people, I always say the quality of your life depends on the quality of your questions.

So people say, oh, why does everything happen to me? Because you're stupid, because a poor question, you get a poor answer. But you ask the guy, what do I need to do in order to move in tomorrow? Right. That's a good question. Yeah. Whatever it takes. So I'm always also thinking about my child. He's 19 and now kids want thousand dollar sneakers.