Marie

And then the week after he went out of town for work for a week. So it gave us that space. And it just like felt like very matter of fact and weird. And so when he came back, I basically told him like, hey, like either we go to couples therapy and like figure this out and like have a guideline on how to like take this slow or we break up because I'm not gonna sit here and wait around for you to

figure out what's going on in your head like if you're not keeping me in the loop because he was basically asking for distance but it was like indefinite distance where I was like I can't do that so technically you kind of ended the relationship yeah technically I ended it but he he showed he said he doesn't have the capacity like he said I can't do it and didn't want to go to couples therapy said it was too early for couples therapy which makes no sense he said he wanted to do preventative couples therapy on our first date I was like

figure out what's going on in your head like if you're not keeping me in the loop because he was basically asking for distance but it was like indefinite distance where I was like I can't do that so technically you kind of ended the relationship yeah technically I ended it but he he showed he said he doesn't have the capacity like he said I can't do it and didn't want to go to couples therapy said it was too early for couples therapy which makes no sense he said he wanted to do preventative couples therapy on our first date I was like

figure out what's going on in your head like if you're not keeping me in the loop because he was basically asking for distance but it was like indefinite distance where I was like I can't do that so technically you kind of ended the relationship yeah technically I ended it but he he showed he said he doesn't have the capacity like he said I can't do it and didn't want to go to couples therapy said it was too early for couples therapy which makes no sense he said he wanted to do preventative couples therapy on our first date I was like

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

So he moved out January 25th. So it was about two months ago, a little over two months ago.

So he moved out January 25th. So it was about two months ago, a little over two months ago.

So he moved out January 25th. So it was about two months ago, a little over two months ago.

Well, so when we broke up, when he moved out two days later after we decided to break up and at the end of it, I said, okay, from my understanding, I have offered to take things slow with you. I've been okay with you moving out. I've been okay. You know, like I just wanted to go to couples therapy and see if we can like work on this. But you don't have the capacity for that.

Well, so when we broke up, when he moved out two days later after we decided to break up and at the end of it, I said, okay, from my understanding, I have offered to take things slow with you. I've been okay with you moving out. I've been okay. You know, like I just wanted to go to couples therapy and see if we can like work on this. But you don't have the capacity for that.

Well, so when we broke up, when he moved out two days later after we decided to break up and at the end of it, I said, okay, from my understanding, I have offered to take things slow with you. I've been okay with you moving out. I've been okay. You know, like I just wanted to go to couples therapy and see if we can like work on this. But you don't have the capacity for that.

And I'm not going to wait around. So we're broken up. And I said it like that, like very matter of fact. And I was trying to be very matter of fact that day. I hadn't cried like I was just like helping him get his stuff out. And he just started bawling, crying and then said that he hopes this will work out for us later and that we're too compatible for this to not work out.

And I'm not going to wait around. So we're broken up. And I said it like that, like very matter of fact. And I was trying to be very matter of fact that day. I hadn't cried like I was just like helping him get his stuff out. And he just started bawling, crying and then said that he hopes this will work out for us later and that we're too compatible for this to not work out.

And I'm not going to wait around. So we're broken up. And I said it like that, like very matter of fact. And I was trying to be very matter of fact that day. I hadn't cried like I was just like helping him get his stuff out. And he just started bawling, crying and then said that he hopes this will work out for us later and that we're too compatible for this to not work out.

Because we were both very happy in the relationship. This came out of nowhere. It's just, he felt pressure or whatever. I don't know. Like he doesn't even know. And so that's kind of how he left it was just basically like, you know, I hope we can be together later. And I said like, well, I have to respect myself and I'm not going to wait around for you.

Because we were both very happy in the relationship. This came out of nowhere. It's just, he felt pressure or whatever. I don't know. Like he doesn't even know. And so that's kind of how he left it was just basically like, you know, I hope we can be together later. And I said like, well, I have to respect myself and I'm not going to wait around for you.

Because we were both very happy in the relationship. This came out of nowhere. It's just, he felt pressure or whatever. I don't know. Like he doesn't even know. And so that's kind of how he left it was just basically like, you know, I hope we can be together later. And I said like, well, I have to respect myself and I'm not going to wait around for you.

And then obviously that messes with your head.