Mark Groves

And hopefully you just bring that time down until eventually both people, as you were saying, they heal their stories. Like when they take space, they leave. Or when they have needs, I get overwhelmed and it becomes all about them. I think it's actually ethically a deep responsibility for any interventionalist to actually do somatic work.

And hopefully you just bring that time down until eventually both people, as you were saying, they heal their stories. Like when they take space, they leave. Or when they have needs, I get overwhelmed and it becomes all about them. I think it's actually ethically a deep responsibility for any interventionalist to actually do somatic work.

And if your survival strategy, which is, that's why I think like at the core of why we do that or why we're good at something, that's great that it's a developed thing. At least we took a wound and turned it into something we could turn into a living and it feels natural for us. But at some point we have to unhook from the need to be needed.

And if your survival strategy, which is, that's why I think like at the core of why we do that or why we're good at something, that's great that it's a developed thing. At least we took a wound and turned it into something we could turn into a living and it feels natural for us. But at some point we have to unhook from the need to be needed.

And if your survival strategy, which is, that's why I think like at the core of why we do that or why we're good at something, that's great that it's a developed thing. At least we took a wound and turned it into something we could turn into a living and it feels natural for us. But at some point we have to unhook from the need to be needed.

And I think a lot of interventionists get stuck in that, is that still unconsciously they need their client to need them and they're being paid for it. So we have to actually do the deeper somatic work that you're talking about so that our nervous system liberates their nervous system. So there's not unconscious hooks. There's like deep unconscious contracts that we're,

And I think a lot of interventionists get stuck in that, is that still unconsciously they need their client to need them and they're being paid for it. So we have to actually do the deeper somatic work that you're talking about so that our nervous system liberates their nervous system. So there's not unconscious hooks. There's like deep unconscious contracts that we're,

And I think a lot of interventionists get stuck in that, is that still unconsciously they need their client to need them and they're being paid for it. So we have to actually do the deeper somatic work that you're talking about so that our nervous system liberates their nervous system. So there's not unconscious hooks. There's like deep unconscious contracts that we're,

you know, in a way, unconsciously sabotaging the success of the people we work with.

you know, in a way, unconsciously sabotaging the success of the people we work with.

you know, in a way, unconsciously sabotaging the success of the people we work with.

You had a hook back into their wound. You know, it just becomes the same model. And, you know, as I agree with you and it's like all really good, like every mentor I've had, every

You had a hook back into their wound. You know, it just becomes the same model. And, you know, as I agree with you and it's like all really good, like every mentor I've had, every

You had a hook back into their wound. You know, it just becomes the same model. And, you know, as I agree with you and it's like all really good, like every mentor I've had, every

every healer i've worked with everything i always can sense like are they here to actually liberate me and and i might not have known that initially but that's now how i sense it's like are they do they need me to validate them do they need any of that no that's right do you walk away feeling better about yourself or better about them that's a good indicator right like i need you to think of me as great or do i feel great in your presence

every healer i've worked with everything i always can sense like are they here to actually liberate me and and i might not have known that initially but that's now how i sense it's like are they do they need me to validate them do they need any of that no that's right do you walk away feeling better about yourself or better about them that's a good indicator right like i need you to think of me as great or do i feel great in your presence

every healer i've worked with everything i always can sense like are they here to actually liberate me and and i might not have known that initially but that's now how i sense it's like are they do they need me to validate them do they need any of that no that's right do you walk away feeling better about yourself or better about them that's a good indicator right like i need you to think of me as great or do i feel great in your presence

Yeah, and you know, I think a lot of the time, too, when we're disorganized, especially, there's a deep desire for a relationship, but then we just don't know why. Like, I had no idea when I was in that phase of my life after that deep betrayal. One, I went from being so pro-relationship, so in love with love, and

Yeah, and you know, I think a lot of the time, too, when we're disorganized, especially, there's a deep desire for a relationship, but then we just don't know why. Like, I had no idea when I was in that phase of my life after that deep betrayal. One, I went from being so pro-relationship, so in love with love, and

Yeah, and you know, I think a lot of the time, too, when we're disorganized, especially, there's a deep desire for a relationship, but then we just don't know why. Like, I had no idea when I was in that phase of my life after that deep betrayal. One, I went from being so pro-relationship, so in love with love, and