Mark Manson

We'll get to that.

No, no, no.

I don't think you're super high in conscientiousness.

Then there's extroversion, which this one I imagine is probably the one everybody's heard of.

Yeah.

Introversion versus extroversion.

Everybody has a label for themselves for this, for sure.

Yeah, yeah.

Then there's agreeableness, which is how much people prioritize social harmony, getting along with each other, cooperation, making sure everybody's happy.

So like a very highly agreeable person is it's going to be very important to them that that people like them, that people get along with each other, that there's no conflict, that everybody's on the same page.

People who are very disagreeable are comfortable with conflict.

um they're comfortable being alone they're comfortable being disliked it's funny because as you know probably the single most common question we get from readers i get from fans is how do i stop giving a what other people think about me those people are probably very high in agreeableness um and so that that is a challenge for them to let go of that social harmony and to allow themselves to be that disliked

And then finally, there's neuroticism.

And this is probably the only thing that you can maybe argue that you don't want to be high in.

Neuroticism, it predicts a tendency towards negative emotions, particularly anxiety, depression, stress.

Highly neurotic people, they tend to experience more dissatisfaction in their relationships.

They tend to experience more conflict and they struggle to cope with stress more often.

Yes.

Okay.

That's true.