Mark Manson

Like, that's, it'd be weird if you did.

So anyway, I just think the aging thing here is significant and important.

I don't know.

It could be.

It may just be that some people are more malleable than others, right?

Yeah.

Like how malleable are you?

Yeah.

I mean, we'll definitely get to that in the adaptation section because like, yeah, like I, cause what I have found is that some people are just kind of naturally predisposed to like rewrite their own personal story very easily.

And, and then other people like really struggle to let go of things.

Yes.

It makes sense.

Like if you want the elder of the tribe, you probably want them to be extremely patient and chill and like not easily flappable.

Why are we banging on this for so long?

Like, we're really getting into the weeds on this.

Genome-wide association studies, yeah.

Yeah, you'd think.

it is important and and i think the reason that we are spending so much time on this is because ultimately the goal of understanding your personality of understanding who you are gaining an accurate sense of self-knowledge it boils down to self-acceptance it boils down to

being comfortable with your own tendencies.

And this is particularly a problem in the self-help industry.