Matt Abrahams
๐ค SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
I'm using all this bandwidth to judge and evaluate and assess my perfection or lack thereof that I actually have very little bandwidth to actually do the communication. So when you give yourself permission to just get it done, I like to say it's about connection, not perfection.
If I just connect with the person, if I just convey my information, I then free up all this bandwidth that allows me to do it really well. So I end my very first class by saying, I told you to maximize mediocrity, and the reason is so you can achieve communication greatness. When we remove that pressure from ourselves to be right, to be perfect, we actually free up bandwidth to help us
If I just connect with the person, if I just convey my information, I then free up all this bandwidth that allows me to do it really well. So I end my very first class by saying, I told you to maximize mediocrity, and the reason is so you can achieve communication greatness. When we remove that pressure from ourselves to be right, to be perfect, we actually free up bandwidth to help us
If I just connect with the person, if I just convey my information, I then free up all this bandwidth that allows me to do it really well. So I end my very first class by saying, I told you to maximize mediocrity, and the reason is so you can achieve communication greatness. When we remove that pressure from ourselves to be right, to be perfect, we actually free up bandwidth to help us
If I just connect with the person, if I just convey my information, I then free up all this bandwidth that allows me to do it really well. So I end my very first class by saying, I told you to maximize mediocrity, and the reason is so you can achieve communication greatness. When we remove that pressure from ourselves to be right, to be perfect, we actually free up bandwidth to help us
If I just connect with the person, if I just convey my information, I then free up all this bandwidth that allows me to do it really well. So I end my very first class by saying, I told you to maximize mediocrity, and the reason is so you can achieve communication greatness. When we remove that pressure from ourselves to be right, to be perfect, we actually free up bandwidth to help us
Get the point across and do it well. And I'll just say one more thing. This is why memorizing is the enemy of communication success. And I know for many people, they're like, wait, wait, wait, wait. If I don't memorize, I'm lost. No, memorizing makes it harder to actually communicate because part of your brain is constantly assessing, am I saying what I had memorized?
Get the point across and do it well. And I'll just say one more thing. This is why memorizing is the enemy of communication success. And I know for many people, they're like, wait, wait, wait, wait. If I don't memorize, I'm lost. No, memorizing makes it harder to actually communicate because part of your brain is constantly assessing, am I saying what I had memorized?
Get the point across and do it well. And I'll just say one more thing. This is why memorizing is the enemy of communication success. And I know for many people, they're like, wait, wait, wait, wait. If I don't memorize, I'm lost. No, memorizing makes it harder to actually communicate because part of your brain is constantly assessing, am I saying what I had memorized?
Get the point across and do it well. And I'll just say one more thing. This is why memorizing is the enemy of communication success. And I know for many people, they're like, wait, wait, wait, wait. If I don't memorize, I'm lost. No, memorizing makes it harder to actually communicate because part of your brain is constantly assessing, am I saying what I had memorized?
Get the point across and do it well. And I'll just say one more thing. This is why memorizing is the enemy of communication success. And I know for many people, they're like, wait, wait, wait, wait. If I don't memorize, I'm lost. No, memorizing makes it harder to actually communicate because part of your brain is constantly assessing, am I saying what I had memorized?
Which only leaves the other part of your brain to actually communicate. So it is better to have a roadmap, a structure, just bullet points that you are familiar with than memorizing word for word. So being mediocre is all about changing cognitive bandwidth to be in your favor.
Which only leaves the other part of your brain to actually communicate. So it is better to have a roadmap, a structure, just bullet points that you are familiar with than memorizing word for word. So being mediocre is all about changing cognitive bandwidth to be in your favor.
Which only leaves the other part of your brain to actually communicate. So it is better to have a roadmap, a structure, just bullet points that you are familiar with than memorizing word for word. So being mediocre is all about changing cognitive bandwidth to be in your favor.
Which only leaves the other part of your brain to actually communicate. So it is better to have a roadmap, a structure, just bullet points that you are familiar with than memorizing word for word. So being mediocre is all about changing cognitive bandwidth to be in your favor.
Which only leaves the other part of your brain to actually communicate. So it is better to have a roadmap, a structure, just bullet points that you are familiar with than memorizing word for word. So being mediocre is all about changing cognitive bandwidth to be in your favor.
Absolutely. Let me introduce the method. It really divides into M&M, my favorite candies. It's about mindset and messaging. The first four steps are all about mindset. When it comes to communication in general, but specifically spontaneous speaking, anxiety looms large. We started by talking about that. Most people are nervous. Most people are really nervous in spontaneous situations.
Absolutely. Let me introduce the method. It really divides into M&M, my favorite candies. It's about mindset and messaging. The first four steps are all about mindset. When it comes to communication in general, but specifically spontaneous speaking, anxiety looms large. We started by talking about that. Most people are nervous. Most people are really nervous in spontaneous situations.
Absolutely. Let me introduce the method. It really divides into M&M, my favorite candies. It's about mindset and messaging. The first four steps are all about mindset. When it comes to communication in general, but specifically spontaneous speaking, anxiety looms large. We started by talking about that. Most people are nervous. Most people are really nervous in spontaneous situations.
Absolutely. Let me introduce the method. It really divides into M&M, my favorite candies. It's about mindset and messaging. The first four steps are all about mindset. When it comes to communication in general, but specifically spontaneous speaking, anxiety looms large. We started by talking about that. Most people are nervous. Most people are really nervous in spontaneous situations.