Matt Clark

Have you shared that with him?

Those exact words?

How did he respond?

So this is an act of charity for him and you should ask for no more.

He's already doing the most by letting you into his life.

Is this second marriage for both of you or one of you?

Okay.

And what is he wanting to protect going into this marriage exactly?

I think you guys are just missing each other communication wise.

And he has his reasons and you have your reasons.

And neither of you are getting to the root of it and understanding each other.

He didn't set it up well.

And what happened here is the prenup is a tool.

It's not evil.

It's just a tool and he's using it as a weapon.

To say, well, you should be ungrateful.

That part gave me the ick for sure.

But I think there is a compromise here where you can, instead of you getting defensive, just say, hey, I'm open to hearing more about what you're thinking when it comes to this prenup.

Can you share some details about how this would be set up?

I would love for this to be fair to both of us.