Matt Clark

I mean, that alone, he's like, oh, I can be disarmed now and not have to bow up.

And you have to ask for an allowance.

I mean, that's where it gets toxic.

So I would get a full picture of what money is going to look like in this marriage.

And if the prenup makes sense as a part of that, great.

But if you guys are unaligned in every other area with money, that is a huge red flag that we should not move forward.

So get clear with them tonight.

Sit down and say, hey, I want to know more about this.

Would I be a beneficiary as long as we're married on your retirement accounts and on the real estate?

And any future wealth, any appreciation of the house and of your retirement accounts, any wealth that we create together from here on out, would I be entitled to half of that?

Those are things where you start to understand and get in the minutia of it.

You might go, oh, okay, that makes sense.

It just sounded harsh on the front end.

Never feel pressured until it's better happen now.

Ultimatum.

Yeah.

That's another red flag.

You dodged a bullet there.

You should be thankful.

You should write him a thank you note if that happens.