Matt Kahn

Very sneaky. It was very sneaky. And I thought it was my job to see the divine in every person. And then it became a spiritual practice to let people take advantage of me.

And I had to wake up out of that.

And I had to wake up out of that.

And I had to wake up out of that.

You know, what strikes me when you say that, and I love how you just put that, is that A lot of spiritual experiences happen in a vacuum, in an echo chamber, much like if people take a karate class. It happens in a dojo. We're all practicing, and everything is very, you hold this position, I do this. And we all walk away going, I think I know what to do.

You know, what strikes me when you say that, and I love how you just put that, is that A lot of spiritual experiences happen in a vacuum, in an echo chamber, much like if people take a karate class. It happens in a dojo. We're all practicing, and everything is very, you hold this position, I do this. And we all walk away going, I think I know what to do.

You know, what strikes me when you say that, and I love how you just put that, is that A lot of spiritual experiences happen in a vacuum, in an echo chamber, much like if people take a karate class. It happens in a dojo. We're all practicing, and everything is very, you hold this position, I do this. And we all walk away going, I think I know what to do.

And then if there's a fight, God forbid, it's very fast. It's very ugly. And it's not the same way. So when you come out of a spiritual event, you go, I think I know how this works. And then you go hang out with your family. And you go, wow, that's not really how it goes down.

And then if there's a fight, God forbid, it's very fast. It's very ugly. And it's not the same way. So when you come out of a spiritual event, you go, I think I know how this works. And then you go hang out with your family. And you go, wow, that's not really how it goes down.

And then if there's a fight, God forbid, it's very fast. It's very ugly. And it's not the same way. So when you come out of a spiritual event, you go, I think I know how this works. And then you go hang out with your family. And you go, wow, that's not really how it goes down.

What I think is really interesting, and I love what you said about if we allow ourselves to feel our feelings as entry point into love, is that in the echo chamber, in this vacuum of spiritual healing or anything, our experiences tend to be about these tools applied to the experiences. we are the most likely to avoid.

What I think is really interesting, and I love what you said about if we allow ourselves to feel our feelings as entry point into love, is that in the echo chamber, in this vacuum of spiritual healing or anything, our experiences tend to be about these tools applied to the experiences. we are the most likely to avoid.

What I think is really interesting, and I love what you said about if we allow ourselves to feel our feelings as entry point into love, is that in the echo chamber, in this vacuum of spiritual healing or anything, our experiences tend to be about these tools applied to the experiences. we are the most likely to avoid.

And then so we're always on the lookout for something to heal, and we don't actually develop a relationship with joy or happiness because we're so afraid of bypassing the trauma. And yet, if we develop a relationship and flex our muscles to learn how to also be in relationship with the other side of the emotional scale, the traumas stop echoing and stop repeating.

And then so we're always on the lookout for something to heal, and we don't actually develop a relationship with joy or happiness because we're so afraid of bypassing the trauma. And yet, if we develop a relationship and flex our muscles to learn how to also be in relationship with the other side of the emotional scale, the traumas stop echoing and stop repeating.

And then so we're always on the lookout for something to heal, and we don't actually develop a relationship with joy or happiness because we're so afraid of bypassing the trauma. And yet, if we develop a relationship and flex our muscles to learn how to also be in relationship with the other side of the emotional scale, the traumas stop echoing and stop repeating.

And so the irony is when we're always on the lookout for something to heal, we're actually bypassing the opportunity to get to know the other side of our experiences. And, you know, when we're talking about resistance, just as we always love helping people experience, like what if resistance is arising? To develop a relationship with you. Like I have a relationship with myself.

And so the irony is when we're always on the lookout for something to heal, we're actually bypassing the opportunity to get to know the other side of our experiences. And, you know, when we're talking about resistance, just as we always love helping people experience, like what if resistance is arising? To develop a relationship with you. Like I have a relationship with myself.

And so the irony is when we're always on the lookout for something to heal, we're actually bypassing the opportunity to get to know the other side of our experiences. And, you know, when we're talking about resistance, just as we always love helping people experience, like what if resistance is arising? To develop a relationship with you. Like I have a relationship with myself.

I have a relationship with resistance. I have a relationship with anger. Most people would never know when I'm having the experiences I'm having because my relationship is incredibly developed. And when I think the fantasy is no longer trying to feel one way versus another, and we can look at it like a family, that our family functions the best in a functioning relationship,