Matt McCusker

Yeah.

But when you try to apply it yourself, it doesn't work.

So what I do is I do really nice things for a lot of people and then I keep score if they do nice things for me.

And then I eventually explode on them and say, you've done nothing for me.

Don't you look nice ten times this week.

Can't keep score.

You can tell them how hard you don't keep score.

That's what I do.

I go, look, the other day you left your stuff out.

I didn't say anything, but I don't keep score like that.

Yeah, exactly, right?

But that, I mean, marriage is one of those things that like...

Yeah, man, it's like, if you really want, because I feel like, again, I only know my own self, but I do feel like, let's say collectively, it is like a furnace, because it's you and another person.

You have different ways on, like, this should be done this way, this should be done that way.

And in my experience, you either, like, let go of a lot of stuff or it just fucking explodes.

Like, there's no other way.

No, no, I'm telling you, I used to always, always when I was younger, I hear people say like just that similar, like kind of folksy, happy wife, happy life stuff.

And I'd always be like, never, I'll never give up.

And then you, you, you hit the point, you go, I'll fucking give up, dude.

I'm done.