Matt

Well, I can read it and see if we can figure out what A-H stands for. My husband, 42-year-old male, and I, 42-year-old female, have been married for 15 years and together for 20 years as of this month. TBH, we both sucked at various points in our marriage. The first year was great. Years two through six were rough after we moved for my job and he became unemployed and had years of on and off work.

Well, I can read it and see if we can figure out what A-H stands for. My husband, 42-year-old male, and I, 42-year-old female, have been married for 15 years and together for 20 years as of this month. TBH, we both sucked at various points in our marriage. The first year was great. Years two through six were rough after we moved for my job and he became unemployed and had years of on and off work.

He was lazy and entitled and I was mean and emotionally volatile. We fought a lot and we both handled it poorly in our early 20s. Things stabilized when he found a good job and matured a bit. Still, he's always been a bit entitled. Financially, I make more. I do 80% of the housework. He does his laundry and I do mine plus sheets, towels, and everything joined.

He was lazy and entitled and I was mean and emotionally volatile. We fought a lot and we both handled it poorly in our early 20s. Things stabilized when he found a good job and matured a bit. Still, he's always been a bit entitled. Financially, I make more. I do 80% of the housework. He does his laundry and I do mine plus sheets, towels, and everything joined.

He was lazy and entitled and I was mean and emotionally volatile. We fought a lot and we both handled it poorly in our early 20s. Things stabilized when he found a good job and matured a bit. Still, he's always been a bit entitled. Financially, I make more. I do 80% of the housework. He does his laundry and I do mine plus sheets, towels, and everything joined.

He thinks he takes out the trash because he takes out the kitchen garbage and thinks I'm unreasonable for asking him to empty the bathroom because I'm the one who uses that garbage can. I spent years planning vacations, doing all of Christmas. I'm a different religion, but I love our nieces and nephews and his parents. It's really most of the work. He does mow the lawn and snowblow.

He thinks he takes out the trash because he takes out the kitchen garbage and thinks I'm unreasonable for asking him to empty the bathroom because I'm the one who uses that garbage can. I spent years planning vacations, doing all of Christmas. I'm a different religion, but I love our nieces and nephews and his parents. It's really most of the work. He does mow the lawn and snowblow.

He thinks he takes out the trash because he takes out the kitchen garbage and thinks I'm unreasonable for asking him to empty the bathroom because I'm the one who uses that garbage can. I spent years planning vacations, doing all of Christmas. I'm a different religion, but I love our nieces and nephews and his parents. It's really most of the work. He does mow the lawn and snowblow.

I help shovel snow and that's it outside. I do maintain my own car. I believe he thinks his big contribution star relationship are tracking and managing Netflix and other shows, driving and being fun. I'm not kidding. Some of this happened because I was too particular and controlling and I have a higher standard than he does, which sometimes is bad on me, sometimes bad on him.

I help shovel snow and that's it outside. I do maintain my own car. I believe he thinks his big contribution star relationship are tracking and managing Netflix and other shows, driving and being fun. I'm not kidding. Some of this happened because I was too particular and controlling and I have a higher standard than he does, which sometimes is bad on me, sometimes bad on him.

I help shovel snow and that's it outside. I do maintain my own car. I believe he thinks his big contribution star relationship are tracking and managing Netflix and other shows, driving and being fun. I'm not kidding. Some of this happened because I was too particular and controlling and I have a higher standard than he does, which sometimes is bad on me, sometimes bad on him.

I'm controlling, he's incompetent, bad combo. Probably around 2019, he started becoming rude to me. It started small, but I addressed it regularly. The most annoying part was when he blamed me for everything. The tiny example is when we couldn't find the TV remote. Where did you put the remote? The rudeness increased after his best friend died by suicide.

I'm controlling, he's incompetent, bad combo. Probably around 2019, he started becoming rude to me. It started small, but I addressed it regularly. The most annoying part was when he blamed me for everything. The tiny example is when we couldn't find the TV remote. Where did you put the remote? The rudeness increased after his best friend died by suicide.

I'm controlling, he's incompetent, bad combo. Probably around 2019, he started becoming rude to me. It started small, but I addressed it regularly. The most annoying part was when he blamed me for everything. The tiny example is when we couldn't find the TV remote. Where did you put the remote? The rudeness increased after his best friend died by suicide.

I gave a lot of leeway and stopped pushing back on his rudeness. I told him multiple times he needed to go to therapy. After a lot of excuses, he admitted he didn't want therapy because he didn't want to do the work. I stopped asking. In 2022, I got sick. I was scared it was cancer, but all the tests came back clean.

I gave a lot of leeway and stopped pushing back on his rudeness. I told him multiple times he needed to go to therapy. After a lot of excuses, he admitted he didn't want therapy because he didn't want to do the work. I stopped asking. In 2022, I got sick. I was scared it was cancer, but all the tests came back clean.

I gave a lot of leeway and stopped pushing back on his rudeness. I told him multiple times he needed to go to therapy. After a lot of excuses, he admitted he didn't want therapy because he didn't want to do the work. I stopped asking. In 2022, I got sick. I was scared it was cancer, but all the tests came back clean.

The ninth doctor I tried helped me clean up my diet, get active, start meditation, and motivated change. I'm not cured or diagnosed, but I'm much better. But it's a daily practice to work on my health. I'm now training for a 5K. I've stopped watching TV and I read. During that process, I moved into the guest bedroom to get better sleep.

The ninth doctor I tried helped me clean up my diet, get active, start meditation, and motivated change. I'm not cured or diagnosed, but I'm much better. But it's a daily practice to work on my health. I'm now training for a 5K. I've stopped watching TV and I read. During that process, I moved into the guest bedroom to get better sleep.

The ninth doctor I tried helped me clean up my diet, get active, start meditation, and motivated change. I'm not cured or diagnosed, but I'm much better. But it's a daily practice to work on my health. I'm now training for a 5K. I've stopped watching TV and I read. During that process, I moved into the guest bedroom to get better sleep.